So my brother is officiating our wedding, and I can't believe this hadn't occurred to me before. What does the officiant read off of, especially if it's a friend or relative who isn't a real "minister" but is ordained and performing your ceremony lol. I feel like having him read off a piece of paper will look tacky? But should I buy him a notebook? A binder? What did your officiant read from?
And while I'm at it, what did you all use to have your self-written vows on too? I was thinking maybe just an index card or something? I've seen those little "vow books" and those are cute and all but they look like they will end up having so many blank pages at the end, and also they all look way too expensive to be worth it to me. But my FH has terrible handwriting (like he can barely read his own writing lol) so having it typed is probably best for him at least!
