Howdy guys!
So, my family is MASSIVE (mom have 9 siblings and dad only has 1). My quince alone we had 400+ guests. And that was just my side of the family. It is impossible to afford a wedding for that many people. We have brainstormed the idea of only inviting some to the dinner and all to the dance. Our ceremony is in a church separate from the venue so they wouldn’t have to awkwardly leave and come back.
Our idea is to either put dinner and dance times on invitations for 100-150 (of our choosing) and the rest with only the dance time or sending invites out only with the dance time on there and personally contacting those invited to the dinner or adding a small dinner card with details to the invitations (those invited to dinner).
Do you have other ideas? Is this rude?