What has been your biggest planning headache?

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Me and you both!!! Been my problem ever since I was little, always wanting the expensive things!

View Quoted Comment I think it's just about everything at this point. I have some health issues that do not allow me to work right now, so the "burden" of everything falls on her. I feel so bad for even wanting a beautiful wedding that is not at a courthouse. I also want to show, coming from someone who never even thought she'd find someone that she'd be willing to marry, that I am a proud woman to marrying the woman I love, and I want my family and friends to be a part of it.

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The biggest headache has been the guests. People have been requesting invites since day one and wanting to invite family members.

Surprised the last month has been the biggest headache. We felt like we had so much done and now it’s like every day something we need to do...11 days left

My grandpas girlfriend. She is controlling and rude. She no longer allows him to see us at holidays and if we send him mail she returns it to us with a note from "him" stating we need to include her on everything. I dont want to invite her but know I have to if i want my grandpa there. I'm worried she will force him to leave early and not enjoy himself. I'm 100% sure she will be offended to see my grandparents wedding photo there (they were married for 50 years before my grandma passed away due to alzheimers) since she took everything and anything that had to do with my grandma out of my grandparents house and stuffed the place with her hideous things. She also likes to spread lies to anyone who listens so I'm sure she'll see what vicious things she can get my FHs family to believe about us. Ugh. I literally have nightmares because of this woman.

Getting my FH to give me those darn addresses for his side of the family! I know he has a few from his dad's side, but I don't think we have any from his mom's side. I have all of my addresses except for the ones my dad is responsible for.

It was buying a second dress and then having to figure out returning the first dress