I've been with my FH for 12 years, we did break up several times (2009), and he surprised me with the wedding proposal.
I love him and can't see myself with anyone else but I was surprised. We are both in our early thirties and we have seen most of our friends married with children and miserable.
WE both were not in a rush to get married.
But, at last, he proposed and I have changed how I feel. Now I am very excited about starting our lives together, but he is pulling back.
He goes with me to look at places and we have had some discussions about wedding planning, but he will not agree on a date!!
We got engaged on 2/28/12 and I want to know if I am rushing him?