What if I feel too fat?

Well if you are plus size, girl that's the sexiest thing walking the earth. Don't worry. He marrying you, you should feel beautiful because his opinion matter by the look of it and him putting a ring on it, he must think you sexy AF. Girl work what u got and if you want to strip tease dance for him then twerk and work every inch of yourself. Feeling great about yourself make you look great.

Leah P! You are the best!!!

I second Leah!

I use to feel a little self conscious too, because I have a little extra meat on my bones. However, I finally decided if he didn't like what he sees he wouldn't have picked me in the first place. So, be confident and show it all off girl!

You won't squish him, my FH weighs over 100 lbs more than me and even if he lays on top of me like he's sleeping it still doesn't squish me. Remember, your FH loves you and will be excited, and he already knows your general body shape so he won't be expecting something completely different when you're naked!!! He picked you for you and loves you, if he wanted a VS model he would've found one!!!

Definitely agree with everyone else. FH is more upset when I feel insecure about my weight (I am heavier than him). Haven't squished him yet! Have you thought about getting something sexy to wear for him? You can wear something sexy without having to do a strip tease. Adoreme has some great things, plus size and regular size.

I feel the same way! Even after being with my fiance for a few years, to be honest. But no, you're not going to squish him if you are on top. However, don't put yourself down by comparing yourself to people in movies or porn or etc. I did that, and it gave me unrealistic expectations of myself. You can look up tips online for help being on top, but mostly just do what feels good for you and he'll be happy enough.

He won't mind your flaws at all. But if it is your first time, I really don't recommend being on top anyway. Later yes, but the very first time no. For me it hurt like a son of a bitch the first time. But either way you won't squish him. He loves you and will be excited to be having sex with you. I've gained like 40 pounds in he past 6 years we've been together. Sometimes I feel self conscious but he is still always trying to grab my butt and make a move lol. He doesn't care.

There's also definitely no need for a strip tease the first time you have sex. (Unless you want to)He has waited to have sex with you this long, he will be just super happy to have sex with his wife. you will get more comfortable with each other

Girl! He is MARRYING YOU! Obviously he loves you. Obviously he wants to do the deed with you!

Being a bigger girl myself, I totally understand the insecurities and worry, but I promise that IF he even notices a flaw, he isn't going to care at all. He's just going to be ecstatic to be with his WIFE!