What little detail do you care about?

I see a lot of people complain about decision fatigue and “whyyyy do I need to respond to this 10th email about napkin colors”, and I’ve definitely had my moments. But I’m also super Type A and overall really like making these little decisions.


So what little details have you found yourself obsessing over even if it’s totally insignificant in the grand scheme of things? Mine is the chargers lol. My decorator, included with our venue, sent me an option that is so wildly off theme I practically gasped lol. I know in my head chargers are a waste of money and that my guests won’t notice them at all, but I have a vision in my head of the table setting, and that vision includes on-theme chargers! I could practically see my venue coordinator’s eyes roll in the back of her head when I asked for something else and sent along inspiration pics, but who else has a tiny little detail that you’re like I’m sorry I care, but I do?