What made it seem most "real" for you?

Honestly, nothing so far haha. I'm 67 days out and it still feels so far away. I got the feels when I tried on my dress with my jewelry and shoes, but I still have to pick out a veil.

Sending out invites FOR SURE! That was super exciting, and so was getting RSVPs back!

I'm 150 days out and still don't believe that it's really happening lol.

First it was booking the venue, then getting my dress, and I'll probably feel the same way when we send out invitations.

But really I don't think it will be until I walk down the aisle haha

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Sameeee. I'm guessing it'll hit me the day of. Sending invites didn't hit me like I thought it would!

Making out first big payment lol. Like after the deposits. It was a "we're really doing this and really want to be together forever" hahah.

Invitations going out was also what made it real for me. It felt like wowwwwwww now our wedding is really happening.

I'm about to send out STDs! It's freaking me out, and I'm super excited at the same time.

😃+😲=🤪

For me was booking the church. After so many date changes, to me the church meant it was happening.

It doesn't feel real for me, but going to my first dress fitting last week helped a little bit. I think it'll hit me more when we send out our invitations! I have our invitations at home already but am waiting til January to send them.

Yesterday I picked up my dress after alterations. We're 45 days away!

Sending out my STDs. OMG we’re telling other people when and where. That means it’s really happening!

Touring THE venue.
Engagement photos.
Or signing all the papers to close on our house.

I sent out mine yesterday!! We had a 3 month meeting with our venue this weekend and when I walked in and started planning the ceremony I had a WOW moment 🥰 They’re few and far between for me but that was a big one!

The box full of stuffed, sealed and stamped invites ready to go to the post office, for sure!

When he/we talk with his daughter (from previous relationship) and we do invitations.

A lot of things.... actually I have felt emotional and brought to (happy) tears many times thinking about getting married (I am marrying the man of my dreams). We talked with our caterer a day ago and I got teary eyed just thinking about our wedding. But what is making it most real for me, is I have a countdown board that I change every morning and each day our wedding day is getting closer, we are now only 46 days out!

100% when we found our ceremony space

I'm still waiting for that feeling. I guess I felt a tiny surge booking the venue. But trying on dresses didn't do it for me. I'm actually a bit disappointed but I'm sure the closer I get to the wedding, the more real it will seem.

Starting to write our wedding ceremony... It felt so real at that point.