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Allyson
Devoted March 2019

What point in ceremony to do wine blending??

Allyson , on October 12, 2018 at 11:36 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 5
My fiancé and I are getting married at a winery so it seems pretty fitting to include a wine blending unity ceremony. When I google it tho, I find tons of sample scripts for the ceremony and all the meaning behind it but not when it's supposed to be performed. I googled when to do unity ceremony and most sites recommend AFTER the I Dos. In my head we do unity first, then we say our personal vows, then I dos, then kiss the bride and woohoo we're married! Do you think it would be weird to do the unity ceremony before the vows? Because to me it seems kind of weird to do the vows/I dos and then take a break to drink wine before kissing and being introduced as Mr and Mrs lol. Help please 😂 Smiley xd

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Latest activity by Kristen, on October 13, 2018 at 10:37 AM
  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
    Kenisha ·
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    Nope 👎🏾

    I don’t think that’s weird

    I like your idea 💡/ plan much better!
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    All of the unity ceremonies I've seen have been after the vows, but I would just discuss it with your officiant and do it however you see fit. As a guest, I honestly probably wouldn't think about the order anyway.

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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
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    Our unity candle ceremony was after the vows. I think it makes sense to do it after because it is a symbol of what you have just promised each other. But I don't think it really matters.
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  • Jennifer
    Dedicated July 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    I don't think your plan would be weird at all. Your ceremony should be however you want it to be!

    For a point of comparison though, my sister did personal vows, wine blending, then the I do's/kiss.
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  • Kristen
    VIP August 2018
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    We did a candle lighting after the vows and before the I dos. I think the ceremonies usually go after the vows because you are reaffirming those vows but honestly you can do them whenever you'd like it's your day.

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