What should i do????

Personally, I would rather invest the money or effort into her wedding gift.

View Quoted Comment I agree with this

I agree with the comment above. I’m in a wedding in 2 weeks and it’s been pretty expensive on my end just to be in the wedding. Maybe just a pic frame with a pic of the 2 of you I suppose. Nothing too crazy.

I think just saying yes is enough also and then like pp said you can show thanks by being a good bridesmaid

You can say yes and if you wanted me to get a thank you card from dollar tree. I like the idea of investing that money into her wedding gift. That's sweet

Wanted to* ignore the me lol

I agree with previous posters. Put money into her wedding gift rather than a thank you acknowledgement.

Put the money onto her shower or wedding gift.

One of my bridesmaids got me a super cute “bride” tumbler personalized from Etsy that I absolutely love, but I definitely didn’t expect anything from anyone. My
MOH is my cousin and she made me a cute tote bag for my wedding planner and such which was awesome too. I wouldn’t do any thing too big, and personalized is always appreciated 😊

View Quoted Comment Best answer yet! Yes, I was thinking of something cute and personalized. While I do plan on getting a really nice gift, I think a simple card for something so sweet is whack (my opinion). I know she won’t expect it but I am different. I don’t expect anything in return from my girls but I love the idea. Thank you!

I had a close friend get us matching mugs that say “Feyonce” and “Bae-Z” with pictures of rings that are super cute! I really appreciated the sweet gesture to celebrate our engagement, especially given that many pre-wedding parties are in limbo right now.

Just say “Yes. I’d be honored to be your bridesmaid.” That’s more than enough. Otherwise write a heartfelt note because that’s meaningful. But, an elaborate “thank you”
is a bit much.