A friend of mine who is supposed to be a BM is really mad at me because I am using a light shade of a color she had in her wedding, because I fell in love with a dress with lace on it (her dress did have a tiny bit), I mentioned a type of food as a slight possibility that she had at her wedding, and the venue we selected was where she was originally wanting her wedding (but didn't because she moved).
I NEVER went to her wedding because we were not talking at that moment. She had dark purple, I chose lilac (light purple). My mom mentioned finger foods (we are having it catered). I didn't remember the name of the venue she originally wanted but, my FH really likes it and the price is in our budget.
What do I do? She said if I chose that venue she won't be there.