Myself and the groom's mother were going to have a small shower since the MOH and all bridesmaids are out-of-town, but my daughter is adamant that she does not want a shower. I am looking for suggestions as to what we could possibly do in lieu of a shower. We were thinking something along the lines of contacting via email or postal mail the people we would have invited to the shower to have them send a recipe that we would then put into a recipe book or some other format since both my daughter and her fiance like to cook. I am open to suggestions.
Thank you!