So I was brain storming on who we should have in our bridal Party, i never asked anyone yet. at the time we were going to ad my 2 cousins but due to a fall out with my cousins they mentally abusive and bring negativity and drama I don't want that for my wedding, so they are not even invited,
here is what we have
my sister as maid of honor
my 2 best friends and bridesmaids
my daughter who will be 13 as a bridesmaid
my 8 year old daughter Junior Bridesmaid
my 4,2 year old daughter as flower girls
My Fiancé got excited and asked his groomsmen here is his side
his younger brother best man
his best friend groomsmen
his best friend groomsmen
his cousin groomsmen
our 15 year old son groomsmen
our 10 year old son jr groomsmen
our 7 year old son ring bear
our 5 year old son as a ring bear
our 1 year old will be a ring bear too
so as you can see we have too many groomsmen and I don't want to add another women just for even sides, I want it to be even. they will be going down the aisle together as it's a family tradition, what can I do to even the sides or make it look even? my fiancé was very apologetic and said maybe he can have one of his friends be a usher? any advice
thank you
