What to do?

Hey everyone!

Wondering if anyone can give me some insight on this

So my wedding is April 10 2021, But for spiritual reasons I am tired of waiting I want to get married! So we are having our wedding in PA but live in MarylandI want to get married without family and friends knowing and still have wedding ceremony in reception as if we didn't already get married, still want to do it that way simply because so much money has went in to it already. Anyone have any advice on how I go about this?