I am stressed to the max with wedding planning. My future wife and I are planning a destination wedding in Portland, Oregon for August 2020. We are inviting 25 people and anticipate between 15-20 will actually show up. our vibe is bohemian mixed with a little rustic. We want lots of greenery but not alot of other decor. The issie I am having is finding a restaurant to have a nice sit down dinner as the "reception" that wont charge me thousands of dollars in food and drink minimums. We want more of a family style meal that will be delicous and memorable but not super frilly and fancy. The objective is to catch up with family and really celebrate our love. At this point I am seriosuly contemplating elopement. The only thing holding me back is the fact that I do want our family to be there. Someone HELP!!!!!!!!!!