What's your love language?

I think I am the type that has multiple love languages. My husband is the kind that uses action to show he cares.

Mine is quality time!! FH is acts of service.

My love language is definitely quality time. With our busy schedules, I definitely treasure the moments that we can spend together, even if it's something as simple as watching our favorite show on Netflix. I also have an appreciation for acts of service: coming home to a clean house after a long day makes me REAL happy. FH's love language is probably gift giving or acts of service. Seems contradictory but he feels the most loved when I go out of my way to do something for him or surprise him with his favorite snack from the store.

We both have almost the same which is quality time. I also need words of affirmation more. But mostly quality time.

I like to do the gift giving and my FH likes to show it by actions.

I'm someone who needs their personal space. I'm not a hugger. I just don't want to be touched. But with him, I'm very touchy. I'm always hugging him, giving him kisses, and trying to cuddle with him. We also are very complimentary towards each other. I'm always telling him he's handsome, and he constantly tells me I'm pretty. He's also very good at doing things that show that he loves me, like starting my car on cold mornings and making my coffee.

We're all about spending time together and the little things we do and say to each other. My FH and I never hang up the phone or leave the house without saying "I love you" to each other. He also makes sure when we're walking into a store or through a parking lot that I'm on the opposite side of on-coming traffic and he is between me and any potential cars. When we walk into a building he always makes sure I walk in before he does. If I'm leaving work late, he asks me to call him while I'm walking to my car, to make sure I get in my car safe (even though I work in a place where my office is gated and there is security). It's really the little things we do and say to each other. Like be careful, call me when you get there, did you eat today. Little things like that.

I think mine is acts of service. My wife's is definitely physical touch. And we both love to spend a lot of time together.

Quality time and physical touch

I took the "test" a few years ago, and I believe that mine was quality time or words of affirmation. FH's is definitely physical touch.

His is mostly acts of service, while mine is mostly quality time. But, we both use multiple love languages with words of affirmation, acts of service, and quality time being our focus.

We both have multiple languages. We like giving gifts or sometimes he'll buy me snacks/desserts (because he ate the ones I had lol). We both share words of affirmation and we love spending quality time together no matter what it is. We'd hold hands, hug or lay on each other.

Mine is Words of Affirmation followed by Getting Gifts! FH hasn't taken the test, but I think his would be Physical Touch.

Mine is quality time, his are physical touch and words of affirmation.

His is definitely quality time/physical touch while I'm kind of all over the board.

Words of affirmation is first for me! Second is probably physical touch. His is quality time! We both agreed gifts was our last ranked one, but we still tend to buy a lot of things for the other (especially when we were dating long distance)

Mine - Physical touch second quality time

His - Acts of service second physical touch

I like to tell him how I feel or do little things for him that I know he'll love. FH does things for me that he knows will help me be less stressed, which is huge for me

For me it's spending quality time together and acts of service. His is physical touch.

Mine is physical touch and FH's is spending quality time together