What’s your love language?

We both highly value quality time but he requires physical touch but is better and giving acts of service. I need acts of service but am better at showing with physical touch. You could say we were ment to be

I didn’t realize love languages is how you prefer to be shown love so shout out to the previous poster that pointed that out!
mine is mainly words of affirmation which my FH is not used to, and I think his is mainly acts of service . We both show each other love with physical touch we love to cuddle and kiss and bother each other with pokes etc, and quality time together is a big thing we both do.
i notice he shows his love to me with gift giving and acts of service. I think I show him love with words of affirmation apart from the touch and quality time.

Sillyness is our #1 love language, followed by communication and physical affection.

For FH he likes to just be in the same room as me. I like to do stuff together like errands, watch tv, physical touch especially. Like if we are next to eachother, I want his hand on me or leg or something

I'm acts of service. He's touch.

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Omg that's so cute!

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Being silly keeps thing interesting and communication is key!!

Quality time and physical touch for me and Acts of Service for FH.

I’m physical touch, and he just does everything for me, I love him 😂

My top love language is kind of a tie between quality time and physical touch, but I lean slightly more towards quality time. FH's is words of affirmation.

I am definitely acts of service and he is physical touch. We both have to give a little when it comes to our love language but we are aware of this and work with it.

Can I be a mix of all of these? Is that allowed?

If not, I guess I'm more of the quality time person?

I do act of service as well as physical touch. I respond best to gifts and physical touch. FH responds best to words of affirmation and spending quality time together. He does gifts when he can,always words of affirmation, quality time together.

Besides saying I love you before bed and before he goes to work, we tease each other a lot, and we do what we can to make the other one crack up. We also love to send each other goofy memes on Facebook messenger

I just make words sound cute... that’s about it.

Mine is acts of service, but FH is words of affirmation. I think.

I am "Words of Affirmation" and FH is "receiving gifts"

We use all four forms of the love language. I've never really tought about it before to be honest. It just comes natural in our relationship.

Mine is spending quality time together... Its funny cause before I read the book I wouldn't think that would be me, but just him and I spending time means so much and we do the craziest things and he keeps me laughing for hours. We will literally sit on the bed at 11pm and we will play cards for money. Then I cry and get it back, or we will have a sing off and he can sing and I cant, but he makes me feel like I have the best voice in the world. Hes pretty amazing

We’re a little bit of everything!