Reading all these posts on here makes me a little freaked out. When did it become more about the day than the actual marriage? I'm planning on a small but nice no frills wedding. Seeing what others are planning/spending is downright scary. I love my fiance and would marry him tomorrow in front of a JP with no one present but us. Maybe I'm jaded because this is marriage number two for me and I'm a little older than the average bride, I already have children and I've already been there, done that with the "princess" wedding. Please don't send a lot of hate my way. I just don't understand why "weddings" have become so over the top...
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