when he blocks me

Yeah, that's not okay. Sounds like it's time to look into some counseling to find better ways to communicate than blocking your spouse.

What do you mean he blocks you? I would recommend couples counseling

My headband has never blocked me. Have you asked about the reason behind it?

I agree with others. Blocking your spouse is a pretty immature move and it's worrisome that it is a regular behavior. I concur with maybe looking into couple's counseling.

It's normal to want some space if hes feel overwhelmed or to even ask your partner for a little relaxing time. We all need it. But blocking is immature and not a good way to communicate

Why would he block you? Your his wife!!!

I don't think him blocking you is right. You guys are married and need to communicate. You can't have a functioning relationship without communication. If he needs some alone time or busy at work he should at least tell you. I feel like him just blocking you is a bit immature to do and wrong to do to his wife.

I believe that allowing him to block you is only opening up a new door for more troubles in your relationship. Communication is key in a relationship and by blocking you he feels this sense of power on being alone and that is not good at all and worse it makes you feel isolated and alone. A relationship is between two people not one and it is okay to want space and take some time but not to the point where it starts to hurt one another. I truly hope you guys can find a middle ground and work through this. There are so many ways to work around this and I'm sure it'll get better for you both as long as your honest about how this makes you feel with your spouse and also be willing to hear him out on how he feels. Taking each others feelings into consideration is important. I'll be praying for your marriage

I’m sorry but this is a red flag to me. If he’s feeling overwhelmed or needs space, he should be able to communicate that with you. It sounds more like he’s hiding you while he’s out doing other things. Sorry, it’s just my opinion. I really hope that isn’t the case but I’d be cautious and really have a talk about it with him.

Blocks you?! Ummm, no. If my wife ever blocked me there would be major issues. That’s not okay. Sounds like you two have some major issues that need to be discussed.

This is a huge red flag. Please consider what PP have said. The fact that he "blocks" you instead of taking the time to discuss with you whatever his issues are, is troubling. PP said it best when they said: "it opens up doors to other kinds of abuse." Please be careful.

View Quoted Comment It is ok he will feel better when I leave him for eternity I guess we all have different reasons to feel for our relationship

Wait, what?

That is not ok. I am very confused to why he would do something like that

View Quoted Comment This is very troubling. Please talk to a therapist/counselor.

How long does he block you for? hours, a day, many days? text and talk on your phone?. I mean it sounds bad. But until the last few years of people carrying phones around, most workplaces did not allow personal calls. I know nurses and teachers who could name the 1 to 3 times in 10 years they talked to their FI or spouse in a decade, in 10-12 hours of working and commuting. If he is blocking you for a workday, but communicates evenings at home, it is no big deal. Days turning to weeks, that would be alarming.

.. .. he.. blocks you? naaaaah, that aint it. sorry this is even happening, you're worth more.

RED FLAG. That will only turn into something even worse. You need to go to counseling together because that is NOT how a marriage should be.

View Quoted Comment I like when he blocks me because it gives me time to read our past relationship

View Quoted Comment We both r counselors lol