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Krystle
Dedicated October 2019

When to have best man stand at altar?

Krystle, on April 20, 2019 at 11:30 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 10

So our ceremony will be outside under a bridge and I am trying to figure out the placement for the best man. I like the idea of having the groom and best man already at the altar rather than walking down the aisle. However, I need someone to walk my mom and stepmom down the aisle. So my fiance will walk them both down separately and then take his place at the altar. My question is whether or not it would be weird to have the best man just standing up at the altar during this time alone. I feel like it would be weird, but I like the idea of my maid of honor walking alone as the last one to go out before me and my dad. Because it is outside there is not a room he could just hang out in and then pop out after my fiance takes his place at the altar. Has anyone done something like this before and could offer suggestions?

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Latest activity by Krystle, on April 22, 2019 at 8:20 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Could your fiancé walk your mom and the best man walk stepmom?
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  • Krystle
    Dedicated October 2019
    Krystle ·
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    I thought about that but it would be really awkward for both of them considering they don’t know each other. They have never even met.
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  • Wendy
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    Wendy ·
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    What about him walking alone after your FH? And before your MOH?
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  • Krystle
    Dedicated October 2019
    Krystle ·
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    I feel like that’s how it’s going to have to go but I just feel like it sounds weird. It would be BM, 3 bridesmaids and groomsman who are walking as pairs, MOH, then me. (We aren’t having a flower girl or ring bear). I feel like at that point the BM and MOH should just walk together but I kind of wanted them to walk separate
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  • Jessica
    Expert October 2019
    Jessica ·
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    If your best man isn't going to be accompanying your maid of honor down the aisle and you need both your mom and step mom to be escorted I'd say have BM go first with either and then FH walk the other.
    It's ok that they don't know each other much, as long as they are acquainted. A lot of bridesmaids and groomsmen escort each other and don't know each other, even are sometimes married to others. It would make a much more cohesive and smooth ceremony in my opinion. And then your FH wouldn't have so much walking to do as well!
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  • Patrice
    Dedicated July 2019
    Patrice ·
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    I agree with Jessica. That sounds like the best solution. They’ll have to walk for 15 seconds.. it won’t hurt either party lol. And it will eliminate your FH walking back & forth.
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  • CDickman
    VIP September 2019
    CDickman ·
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    Have your guy walk thrm
    down then go to alter them best man fellow. I think I will have his parents walk in togather then the people doing the readings two of my brother in laws walk in my dads wife(if I have her walk In. My mom passed when I was a adult so she did not help raise me or anything) then his grandma.
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  • B
    Dedicated June 2022
    beee ·
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    Can I ask why you want your maid of honor to walk alone? It seems like maybe you want to do this as a special way to honor her. If that’s the case then it seems rude to not allow the best man to even walk down the aisle.
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  • Krystle
    Dedicated October 2019
    Krystle ·
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    I was at a wedding where the maid of honor walked down alone and I just really liked the idea. My MOH is my sister and I just want to have a last intimate moment together with my dad before she walks down. The best man is my fiancé’s brother and he could care less. He wouldn’t have been mad if he wasn’t even in the wedding
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  • Krystle
    Dedicated October 2019
    Krystle ·
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    I like this order I think. It’s not a big deal for my fiancé to walk back down the aisle. My stepmom raised me more than my mom so I feel like it would almost be offensive if he didn’t walk them both down
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