When you are a desperate bride marked as spam here...

I also used Wedding Wire to plan my entire wedding and had ZERO issues. In fact, it made things so much easier. Sorry you had such a problem, but I don't see what the point of this post was, honestly. Most of us here are here because we find the community, tools and staff incredibly helpful. If we didn't, we would have just left. Hope it all works out for you in the end,

Eileen, the community here is trying to support you, but the point is most of us have not HAD this issue - I contacted a TON of vendors all at once, as has my best friend who is currently planning her own wedding. She has also not had this issue. Those of us who "already did ours" come back here to lend our ears and advice. This thread just seems like you're here to trash talk, which - if you are in a time crunch - is not a constructive use of time. We are happy to help, guide and give feedback and advice, but coming in here so defensive isn't allowing us to. Sending love and luck your way! Honestly!

I honestly don't understand why all the hostility. I'm not an employee. I never have tried to be.

Best of luck to you and yours, and I hope you find whatever it is you're looking for here.

I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope your wedding planning experience improves!

I'm sorry that happened, but at least you can still contact vendors through their emails. I looked at a lot of vendors on here but always contacted them directly through their email unless I couldn't find it somewhere (some vendors also said they didn't always get WW notifications so it's better to contact them directly).

I'm sorry you had the issue. However, I strongly suggest you get another email address for wedding planning anyway. When you contact vendors, you often end up inundated with emails. It's that much worse if you go to a bridal show - I was still receiving emails from some vendors 6 months *after* my wedding.

Contact vendors through their individual information. You should still be able to look at reviews, then go to their sites and find contact info.

I get that you're stressed - I planned my wedding in 6 months and 1 day, and there's a lot involved, but it is doable. Narrow down your venue first. Depending on location and budget, you may discover that your preferred date is already booked. All of these ladies are just trying to help you, and your responses are coming across as defensive and hostile. You did not post this as a "vent," and most of us do have a good experience here. That's why we're here instead of one of the other options.