Where are you at where should i be?

I’m gettin married April 11. We have our venue, caterer, florist, baker, tuxes/dresses, invitations, and room block. The only thing we really have left to do is pick final decorations to but like signs, favors, place cards etc. Is there something specific you’re wondering if you should have done?

I’m getting married around your time too: April 18th!


We have the following completed with down payments placed:VenueFloristCatererDecorDJMakeup and hairPhotography and Videography Wedding websiteBridesmaid dresses orderedMy dress delivered (alterations next year)Wedding plannerBooked lodging for wedding party
To doending out invites next weekFH needs to finalize his groomsmen attireBuy my tickets to my bachelorette in Nola!Book buses for transportation for wedding guests FH needs to finish making program, escort card board, personalized gamesWedding guestbook drop boxTable numbers - I’m being so indecisive on this!!!
I think that’s it!

I'm April 11th

Have done: venue, hotel block, food & drinks, photography, floral/decorator, day of coordinator, DJ, cake, hair and makeup, bridesmaids & groomsmen outfits, bride & groom outfits, outfits for family & ring bearer, save the dates sent out

Still to do: order & send invitations (in January), finalize food menu after tasting, order bridesmaid & groomsmen gifts (waiting for black friday deals), book honeymoon, place cards, programs, favors, welcome bags for hotel guests, marriage license

April 11th!
Done: venue, ceremony musicians, officiant, wedding party picked, wedding dress, shoes & veil bought, diy projects started, catering booked, photographer booked, engagement pics, STD sent, invites ordered, wedding bands bought, guest book bought, BM gifts, honeymoon hotels booked, Out of state BM plane tickets booked

To do: finish booking hair, pick ceremony music & readings, wedding party attire order, finish diyprojects, finish flower arrangements, book donut order, alterations appointment, buy exit dress, BM getting ready shirts, marriage licence, premarital counseling, send invites, table assignments, finalize timeline

I’m actually 10/10/20 (not April) 😁😉. But the following has been booked:



Venue (hotel includes catering), officiant, florist, photographer, wedding planner, DJ, hair and makeup, cocktail hour entertainer, my dress (no bridal party), videography, guest room discount codes, honeymoon, cake, guest “book” and save-the-dates purchased.
Favors and invitations have been decided upon and just need to be ordered. Decor ideas are pretty much set. The main thing remaining (right now) is to decide which wedding website to use and create it by the time we mail our save-the-dates in January. Stationery items, like the seating chart & table numbers, will be ordered farther down the road.

April 4th!


Done: Venue, catering(included with the venue), officiant, dress delivered(alterations next year!!!), shoes and veil, florist, cake, dj, photographer, engagement photos taken, save the dates sent, rings bought, guest book, bridesmaid dresses, ceremony decor, tasting complete, invitations ordered, make up artist booked, hotel block reserved
To do: send invitations in January, dress alterations, final florist decisions, pick a cake topper, tuxes, finalize menu, hair and make up trial, get my rings resized and maybe soldered together, plan rehearsal dinner, book honeymoon
Phew, still a lot left to do! Waiting for Black Friday sales for some decor pieces.

APRIL 25TH HERE TOO! YAY!


DONE: Venue, DJ, photographer, florist, officiant, hair and makeup, food tasting done and menu picked, save the dates sent, invitations ordered and received, dress, wedding bands picked (purchased FH’s), ordered welcome sign and unplugged ceremony signs, have our guest “book”, bridesmaids dresses picked and ordered, registry done, bridal shower date picked,
TO DO: Pick men’s attire, cake tasting, send invitations, purchase my wedding band, redesign centerpieces with florist (I changed my mind-haha), DIY table numbers, choose all music, book hair and makeup trial, figure out timeline and processional
Where are you at with things?!

April 23! We just need a suit, shoes, some ties and to confirm menu and floral!

View Quoted Comment Not really! All these replies are super helpful just for me to compare and make sure I wasn’t missing anything. I was able to get a bunch of little things done today. I know we still need to do; suits, the signs, plan shower and rehearsal dinner but that’s really all that I can think of if the top of my head. Besides like other little things that I already have on my list

View Quoted Comment I know what you mean, there’s so many little things I always feel like I’m overlooking something!

We are getting married on 10.10.2020 and I have barely started.

We know the date, LOL! the colors of the wedding, and the theme of the wedding.

I have tons of ideas and alot of pinterest post for inspiration though.

Yikes, after reading all your post, I realized I'm so behind!

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Awesome! We are getting married on April 11th as well. We have to complete the invitations, decor, seating/place cards, and music. So far, everything else is done.

We are getting married on April 11th. We have to complete the invitations, decor, seating/place cards, and music. So far, everything else is done. I also need to find my jewelry and some shoes. I am also waiting on three of my BM's to get their dresses.

I'm 3 months out (minus a few days). I have the big things booked but need to bust my tail on organizing decor and making sure of what I have/need. those details are being a pain. I have to finalize it before my Jan 11th walkthrough.

View Quoted Comment I am also waiting on a couple of my BMs to get their dresses! I was able to work a lot this weekend on a lot of things. I definitely need to work or my invitations and music! We know a few songs but I need to make a playlist or at least give the dj some references to the music we like

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Same here. We have a few songs in mind, but need to give an idea of what genres we like and the vibe we want. Good luck with everything.

My wedding date is May 2nd, and I am starting to look into hair/makeup trials, cake tasting, and bridal shower registry. Good luck!

Wedding date 10-10-20

Done- venue, hired a lady who does decor and catering, DJ, photography, videography, bartender

To Do- cake, buy dress and shoes, FH has to his get tux, jewelry, figure out hair and nails, figure out how to decorate the church, buy wedding bands and the list goes on because I'm sure I'm missing something