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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Which came first? Budget or Bridal Party?

Lynnie, on November 12, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 97

Now that you've got some of the logistics out of the way, it's time to dive in!! Did you hold back on making any more wedding decisions until you had a rough budget figured out? Or did you start with some of the fun stuff, like figuring out your bridal party! Did you already have your "I do crew"...

Now that you've got some of the logistics out of the way, it's time to dive in!! Did you hold back on making any more wedding decisions until you had a rough budget figured out? Or did you start with some of the fun stuff, like figuring out your bridal party! Did you already have your "I do crew" all lined up in your mind?

Which came first for you? Figuring out your budget or your bridal party?


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97 Comments

  • Ema
    Dedicated April 2022
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    Bridal party came first. I didn’t have a set budget until after booking my 3rd or 4th vendor. I didn’t officially finalize my bridal party until about 3 months ago, though. But majority of them knew before the budget was set
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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated March 2020
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    Bridal party was 2nd


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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated March 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    Bridal party, still working on budget..


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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
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    Bridal party. There's only one person I would ask to be there.

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  • Meagan
    Dedicated July 2021
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    I believe the budget was first
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  • Jamie
    Expert May 2020
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    Bridal party. Which was kind of silly... if I were to do it again I would have budgeted first and then chose my number of BM's/GM's based on our budget. haha. Opps.

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  • K
    Savvy April 2020
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    Bridal party! I picked people who I’ve known all my life!
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  • E
    Savvy April 2020
    Edie ·
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    Budget ... And no wedding party.
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
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    Bridal Party
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  • Anna
    VIP October 2020
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    I feel like they kinda came at the same time. I had my bridesmaids figured before he even proposed though, and I guess I didn't sit down to actually make a budget until after that. However, before I started looking at numbers, I knew my budget would be as thrifty as possible while still being pretty

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  • MeetTheRobinsons
    Devoted June 2020
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    The budget came first of coarse. I already knew I only wanted 2-3 ladies standing with me and my FH said the same for him.
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  • Riley
    Expert September 2020
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    Bridal party we only have a maid of honor and best man. Both are our best friend.

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  • Jmz
    Expert July 2022
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    I guess I unofficially knew in my own mind who'd be in the party, but I didn't officially ask them until halfway into planning. So budget.
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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
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    Bridal Party, sort of. I knew who my MOH and one other bridesmaid will be, right off the bat. My second bridesmaid because a friends I reconnected with last September.

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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    Definitely budget. Its the most important and we plan on not having a bridal party.
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  • Ashley
    Super November 2020
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    Budget for sure. I always knew who would be in my bridal party, but my FH had no idea and had the budget planned before we even picked a venue!

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  • Emilia
    Super June 2019
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    Budget ! My bridal party was long after ;-)

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