My wedding is in early June, and my mom just mentioned wanting to throw me a bridal shower. However most of my guests are from out of town so I feel bad about asking people to fly here twice.
I want to have the bridal shower as far from the wedding as possible (without it being weirdly early) so I guess the first question is, when is the earliest you can have a bridal shower?
Also, especially for out of town guests, I’m feeling like we should send the wedding invites before (or maybe at the same time as?) the bridal shower invites.
I’m getting worried that if they receive the bridal shower invite first then they will say “yes” and make travel plans around that, and then not want to/not be able to come to town for the actual wedding once we send out those invites. Is that irrational or is that something that seems like it could happen?
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