Hi! I'm excitedly planning my wedding for next year! To have my perfect day I'm making cuts whenever possible. We will be having a cash bar to save money. We've already set up a GoFundMe so guests can contribute to the wedding. I know people will be excited to contributed. Another good idea I'm having is to have a tiered reception with different guests invited to different events, which I think would work for us. I'm just not sure what to do about food. We can't afford to feed everyone. Some of my friends say to skip the food- no one eats at weddings anyway and people will just want to drink and mingle and can get food before or afterward. But one of my aunts was saying she'd want food and I should have a "potluck" reception where guests bring different items- she thinks guests would be honored to be included and be excited to help out! I'm already having my friends and family do most of the labor for my wedding so I'm sure everyone would love to help out more. But maybe food just isn't necessary. What do you guys think?