Which side is "your side" of the bed?

The right side.

The left side is all mine!

When one is facing the bed from the foot board, mine would be the right.

The right side or the side that is up against a wall is my side.

The side away from the door! I'm not sure why, but that's how it's always been!

We aren't sleeping together in the same bed until after we're married but I like being away from the door so I'm sure that's how it'll end up being!

Mine is the left but FH's is the entire bed...

The middle 😂 between him on my left and my bossy cat on the right i always end up pushed in the middle haha

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Does your bed at home sit up against the wall on the right side, Melissa? Is that why that's the case with you?

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LOL, he sprawls out like a starfish or does he toss and turn?

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Haha, I can safely say I've never heard of that before, Sarah! So before the cat comes in, you sleep on the right?

View Quoted Comment He sprawls and likes to cuddle so he tends to start in the middle of the bed and then gets more and more onto my side as the night goes on. I often wake up and try to roll over but can't because he is pressed against my back.

I’m near the door. Occasionally we switch but we always go back to our old sides.

Mine is always the one nearest the wall. I do not have as much of a problem with this now but I used to have horrid nightmares or just couldn't sleep because I was so afraid of someone breaking in. I had a weird mantra of sorts of counting my defenses. 2 locks/doors, 2 dogs, 2 weapons, etc. Sleeping next to my FH, living in a far better neighborhood, and a couple of tough looking dogs (sorta lol idk they are big babies) and I feel a lot more at ease now.

Mine is the furthest from the door/closest to window. I lost my side of the bed (well the whole bed was my side lol) when FH moved in. He wanted to be closer to the bathroom, and now gets woken up every morning when I get ready for work.

We switch every now and then, we used to rotate the mattress to keep it nice and even but now we just switch sides every so often. Sometimes I fall asleep on his side and he'll just go into the other As long as he's next to me it doesn't matter.

Used to be the right, near the window and away from the door. However, it then got cold out and I had to move away from the window and have been on the left side all winter thus far 😂

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I'm glad that you can sleep a little more easily at night because of your dogs and FH!

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LOL, sounds like he's made the worse decision here. Who gets up earlier, you or him?

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I do by far! I'm up around 5/5:30, and he normally gets up around 10. I don't mind, I'm directly under a vent, so I stay comfortable year round, just have to be worried about tripping over the dog when I'm walking to the bathroom in the morning.