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Maggie
Champion October 2025

Who defined the relationship? You or your fiancé(e)?

Maggie, on November 13, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 254

In every relationship, there’s a time when you’re a little unsure of what you two are to each other. Which one of you cleared that up? Who defined your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)? Photo by Six Hearts Photography in Atlanta Next Question: Who is taller? You or your fiancé(e)? Or start from...

In every relationship, there’s a time when you’re a little unsure of what you two are to each other. Which one of you cleared that up? Who defined your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)?

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Photo by Six Hearts Photography in Atlanta

Next Question: Who is taller? You or your fiancé(e)?

Or start from the beginning: You or your fiancé(e)? Round two!


254 Comments

  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
    Maggie ·
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    Nice, Megan!! In charge and up front, I like your style!

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  • Future Mrs. R💜
    Beginner June 2020
    Future Mrs. R💜 ·
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    Definitely ME!!!

    He never asked me to be his girlfriend, but we were together all the time. I was the background on his phone, he had 5 smiley faces next to my name in his phone. I just told him one day, 'Hey I put you as Boyfriend in my phone.' and he said, "sweet!(with a big ol' grin)"

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  • T
    Dedicated August 2019
    Tamra ·
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    He made it official on facebook publicly...

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  • Jenay
    Dedicated October 2024
    Jenay ·
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    It was kinda both of us. We have the same friends so, I told all of them and I didn't tell my mom until like two days after I told all our friends and he told his family when we started dating.

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  • A
    Beginner July 2019
    Amanda ·
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    I did. I walked up to him and told him he was going to be my boyfriend and he didnt have a say in it.
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  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
    Maggie ·
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    I like that! A woman who knows what she wants and makes sure she gets it! Smiley laugh How did he respond?

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  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
    Maggie ·
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    A mutual decision, I like that, Jenay!! It sounds like you were really excited to tell everyone you were together.

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  • A
    Beginner July 2019
    Amanda ·
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    He just looked at me and said ok sounds good to me.
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  • Jenay
    Dedicated October 2024
    Jenay ·
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    Yes, I was so excited to tell everyone. But we told each other that weren't until two weeks after we started dating, so it was really exciting when we told everyone cause they were all excited for us to finally be together.

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  • Olivia
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Olivia ·
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    He did. Not to toot my own horn but he was a bit obsessed 🥰 I think he said I love you after about 2 weeks
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  • Erin
    Savvy September 2020
    Erin ·
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    He did for sure.

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  • Kayla
    Dedicated October 2020
    Kayla ·
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    I told him if he wanted a relationship with me he had to ask properly, he asked me to be his girlfriend the next day
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  • M
    Beginner February 2021
    Maria ·
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    I think we both did; at the same time cause we both were like we are meant to be and should date
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  • Shirleyt
    Beginner April 2020
    Shirleyt ·
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    He did I was introduced to his family as his girlfriend and my eyebrows shot up... okayyyy!!
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  • Riley
    Expert September 2020
    Riley ·
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    Me I straight up asked what are we after he kissed me
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    It's odd. Neither of us really did. It was all literally just a jumble. We were hanging out, started talking and then next thing we know, we're like I guess we're dating. We even had to make up our anniversary date around the time we assumed it happened. We're terrible lol

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    Dedicated November 2021
    Melanie ·
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    I would say we both did. We chose to begin this relationship states a part, but now live together in the same state and even though we have our differences I couldn’t be happier that he took that leap with me ❤️❤️
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  • A
    Beginner July 2021
    Amanda ·
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    It was both. We both said we wanted to be in a relationship with each other
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  • Potato
    Savvy October 2019
    Potato ·
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    We established our relationship on mutual terms. I mean, in reality I told him I wasn't sure how he'd feel about asking "what are we", but it needed to be discussed!

    He called me his girlfriend before I could actually accept the fact that someone wanted to date me 😂
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  • Kristi
    Just Said Yes February 2025
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    He defined the relationship and might I say how perfect that night was 🥰♥️
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