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Who defined the relationship? You or your fiancé(e)?

Maggie, on November 13, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 254

In every relationship, there’s a time when you’re a little unsure of what you two are to each other. Which one of you cleared that up? Who defined your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)? Photo by Six Hearts Photography in Atlanta Next Question: Who is taller? You or your fiancé(e)? Or start from...

In every relationship, there’s a time when you’re a little unsure of what you two are to each other. Which one of you cleared that up? Who defined your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)?

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Photo by Six Hearts Photography in Atlanta

Next Question: Who is taller? You or your fiancé(e)?

Or start from the beginning: You or your fiancé(e)? Round two!


254 Comments

  • Happily Ever Mrs. H
    VIP October 2018
    Happily Ever Mrs. H ·
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    It was kind of a mutually understood thing.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    He definitely makes sure I now hes in it 4 the long run n tells me everyday how much he loves me
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  • Kimberlyn
    Just Said Yes December 2020
    Kimberlyn ·
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    He did. After our 3rd date, he called it 🖤
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  • Margaret
    Dedicated December 2019
    Margaret ·
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    He did, he asked me to be his girlfriend after a couple of months, and that was that.

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  • Katelin
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Katelin ·
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    He asked me out but I said no, so he kept asking, he then started to go after another girl, that's when I realized I didnt like the idea of him being with another girl so I told my sister to tell him to ask me again. He told me later that he wasnt going to do it because he didnt want to get rejected again. But he asked and I said yes.
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  • Kiki
    Dedicated September 2020
    Kiki ·
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    I honestly cannot remember when it started, but after a while into the relationship we started saying

    "You're my everything"
    "You're all I need"

    It basically defined it for us!
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  • Ashley
    VIP December 2018
    Ashley ·
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    We never had a moment like that. We weren't a couple because we were dating other people, and when we broke up with those other people, FH and I were a couple. That was about it!

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  • Laureline
    Dedicated December 2019
    Laureline ·
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    He did, he asked me to move in and make things official even went as far as being called dad to my kids
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  • M
    Super October 2018
    Michelle ·
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    We met online and went on a first day three days later and he asked me to be his girlfriend at the end of the first day (which lasted 5 hours). We never moved that fast before but there was an immediate connection. We married on our 6th anniversary, so at least we did not rush that part
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  • Ianthee
    Beginner July 2020
    Ianthee ·
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    I would say he did and he was more publicly with while I already knew our status before he said anything 😏
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  • B
    Savvy March 2019
    Bendetta ·
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    We both had a little doing with that. 🙂
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    He asked me to be exclusive on the third date and fb official. But since we broke up and got back together we’re not on fb anymore. It hurts my feelings a little but a real live relationship is more important than the online drama.
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  • Swayla
    Beginner March 2020
    Swayla ·
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    I was telling people we were together when started talking. But he asked me if he could be my boyfriend a month later and, of course, I said yes.
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  • Kara
    Dedicated June 2021
    Kara ·
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    We meet on an online dating site so it was pretty clear what we both were looking for. So it was more of a matter of how many dates until we make it official. I think we discussed it on the 2nd or 3rd date and made it official within the next 48 hours or so.
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  • Erica
    Dedicated April 2019
    Erica ·
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    He did and it was so sweet and refreshing not to have to wonder what we are or what he's thinking. Within one month of meeting I was able to say with confidence "this is my boyfriend, Adam".

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  • Taylor
    Devoted May 2019
    Taylor ·
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    He did! We hopped into a relationship pretty fast! Smiley xd It started when we had our first date, that night he asked me to homecoming, we had our first kiss before we said goodbye, and later when we were texting I asked what we were at that point. He told me that we were an item, yes he used the term an item Smiley xd And that was it, we were boyfriend and girlfriend after our first date lol! I wouldn't have it any other way Smiley heart

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  • S
    Beginner December 2018
    Sierra ·
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    He did. We were in high school together so all of our free time we spent together and after awhile everyone knew we were more than just friends even though we weren’t official so when people started asking he finally asked me to be his girlfriend.
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  • IslandBride88
    Devoted November 2018
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    WE had a mutual discussion one day.

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  • Joyous
    Just Said Yes April 2026
    Joyous ·
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    He did we were waiting for a while to do it because we both had just gotten out of a relationship and we didn't want to jump into another so quickly.
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  • Lafuturaseñora
    Devoted April 2019
    Lafuturaseñora ·
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    Haha I dont mind to be honest it's like my favorite story to tell I think it's cute at least. We were working Saturday night and now that I am saying it I remember, one of our coworkers/mutual friends told me that he wanted to ask me something (he was acting soooo weird that day, he seemed really nervous around me even to the point he told me he felt like he couldn't breathe at all) and so I was super excited to see what he wanted to say. So I told him let's go dancing to our usual spot, we got there maybe around 11:30 and stayed until they just about closed. Afterwards as per our ritual we went to go find food! He told me lets go to this taco truck he always liked, so we went there and parked and were just talking for the longest time, and it just sorta happened, he kissed me and I kissed him. I guess it wasn't really accidental, but it definitely wasn't expected lol!! When we got out of the car to go eat, the taco truck ended up being closed, we lost track of time talking! So we went to IHOP, and then right after we finished eating we rushed to our 8AM store meeting at work again, and finally around 9 or 10am he dropped me home. It was such a funny night to us both, when we saw each other later at work I offered to give him a ride home because his car messed up and he asked me to be his girlfriend after about an hour of me asking him what's wrong why are you being so weird and nervous lol... Sorry for the giant book lol I got carried away.

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