Who defined the relationship? You or your fiancé(e)?

He defined the relationship

I would say he did. He was telling everyone I was his girlfriend about a month or two before he told me. Haha. But I was determined to date him. We both were. It was a typical guy steals girl story.

He asked after a couple months of knowing each other, but i was the one who got the ball rolling.

My fiance. We we're "dating" but privately essentially. We spent almost every night together. We spent almost every day together. We weren't seeing other people. I was just going with the flow honestly. and then one day he called himself my boyfriend and we started holding hands in public more and told all our friends and everyone we knew that we were dating.

He did...We were out one night only 3 weeks into our relationship and while he was on stage playing, someone in the bar commented about how well my “boyfriend” plays guitar. I thanked him and flushed. Later, I told my guy about what happened and that I hope it was okay that I did not correct the gentleman on his “boyfriend” label. Kurt then said to me, “oh we are definitely boyfriend-girlfriend.” 😍

We both kinda did. I hinted at it but later that evening he officially asked me which is what he had wanted to do ages ago lol

I did! He needed help getting there.

He did 100%. We were very intentional when started hanging out and going on dates. He asked me to be his girlfriend after just two weeks after our first “date”. Then we knew we were dating for marriage after just a few more weeks and began discussing marriage, even though we dated 3 1/2 years before engagement.

My fiance asked me a question about a month into our relationship that sparked a great conversation and established our exclusivity.

We both did. He moved in 5 months after we met. That defined us as a couple. Then the promise ring for our 1 year. Engaged at our 5 year :-)

Probably him. Within the first month or so he said "I love you, but you don't have to love me back yet"

I definitely asked what we were because I didn’t want to waste my time as I was already falling for him

He cleared that up

We both did, when we started talking he didn't actually ask me out, it was one of them things that didn't need an explanation we knew we was together. We talked and picked the date we decided that we had started dating.

I did!!

He made the first move in all other areas and said I love you first, but I was the one who initiated the "are we boyfriend / girlfriend" convo!

He did! By saying "I hate to point out the white elephant in the room but we're in love and therefore dating, so can I take my girlfriend to Disneyland?".

He wanted a relationship and I gave in eventually you can decide who defined it lol

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Hahaha, I love it!! "Can I take my girlfriend to Disneyland?"

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Ooh, that's so sweet, Erin!! It's like he knew and thought you knew as well!

This is a tricky question. He claimed we were in a relationship before I did. I thought we were just dating but he had other plans. And when I realized it I was like oh ok well I guess I’m taken world.