Who defined the relationship? You or your fiancé(e)?

He did! He asked me to be his girlfriend after we dated for a month. After we were bf/gf for 2 and 1/2 years he asked me to marry him!

He did. We dated in high school and I defined our relationship. His mom shipped him off to his dad's and 30 yrs later both of us divorcing and found each other on Facebook.. - where else.. haha. I was all in and he had walls up- so I followed his lead and now he's all in and I'm the one kind of standing back... But love him more than anything and can't imagine life without him.. and after 30 years of being apart and finding that we still had feelings after all those years, never going to let him go..

We took it slow, but I'm pretty sure it was him!

I didn't. I actually came out and said, "Are we dating or not?"

I honestly have no idea, I guess for as was so natural that both.

He asked me so adorably if I would be his girlfriend it was so sweet! I couldn’t stop smiling for days!

Honestly I did. At first he didn’t want a relationship. He had been through a lot with previous women but I told him from the get go that I would be his and he would see that not all women are the same. 😊

I had my poor fiance on a wild goose chase for the first 4 months. He asked me to be his girlfriend twice, I wasn't ready. Finally, right before lost hope and was helping me to move out of my apartment I asked him to be my boyfriend It only took one time to ask me to marry him tho!

I think we both decided together that we were going to officially be boyfriend and girlfriend.

I 💯% did that. When he asked me to be his gf for the second time I said yes at least 10 times and repeatedly said I’m sure to being his gf.

He asked me out for a solid 6 months until I said yes and I told him he was going to ask me to be his girlfriend then his wife. So it was him however I was the one who told him when he was ready to make it serious te he had to “officially” ask me to be his gf then his wife.

Both! Weirdly enough we both went to start the converstation at the same time and both said "so are we official now?" AT THE SAME TIME! 😂

He did for sure! I got in a pinch with my mom and needed to find a place to live and he came out and said i love you and your moving in. And that was the end of it and I moved in within the month

He defined our relationship.

FH definitely defined it. He made the first move and made it official by asking me to be his girlfriend.

He defined it for us when we were in the phone and he said he loved me for the first time

I think I referred to him as my “boyfriend” first, but he’s the one that said “we should make this official”

We both did. Spent the first six months hashing out every detail and getting to know as much as possible about each other

We are equal in are relationship

He asked me to be his girlfriend by making me a delicious romantic dinner. There were flowers and gifts and a beautiful letter. I made it official by saying yes