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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who did most of the wedding planning?

Lynnie, on May 28, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 344

Here's a question that really counts! Who did most of the wedding planning? You or your fiancé(e)? Photo by Skip Hopkins Next Question: Who is more likely to cry on the wedding day? Back to the Beginning: You or your fiancé(e)?

Here's a question that really counts! Smiley winking Who did most of the wedding planning? You or your fiancé(e)?


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344 Comments

  • Laveda
    Savvy September 2021
    Laveda ·
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    I am doing most of the planning but he is very supportive and I make sure he has a voice when it comes to the final decisions Smiley heart Smiley ring Smiley cake

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  • Kayla
    Dedicated May 2021
    Kayla ·
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    Hands down me! He's pretty go with the flow. I'm definitely the picky one about everything.

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  • Danielle
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Danielle ·
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    He did most of the wedding planning
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  • L
    Beginner November 2019
    Lesli ·
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    I have done it all
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  • Reid
    Beginner October 2020
    Reid ·
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    I did, but in his defense it was hard for him to keep up when I changed my mind about color schemes 4 times
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
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    Definitely me. He has some opinions, but he's not really motivated to do the planning.

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  • Katelyn
    Expert October 2020
    Katelyn ·
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    Me, definitely me. I’m on wedding wire every day and I’m constantly telling him what we need to do. I want everything planned out so that we know how much we are spending. So, even though we are just over a year out, I plan.
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  • Stephanie
    Savvy September 2020
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    We're both planning it together Smiley heart
    I've done a bit more planning: digging and looking for vendors and then we decide together. It is a team effort Smiley smile

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  • Brittanie
    Dedicated June 2020
    Brittanie ·
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    Alllllllll me. He doesn't want anything to do with it because he doesn't know which decisions will make me happy and I'm really the only reason he broke down and agreed we could finally have our wedding Smiley xd

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  • Mary
    Expert July 2019
    Mary ·
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    My husband was very good about sharing planning responsibilities. He toured venues alone, took care of all things relating to the groomsmen and welcome/rehearsal dinner, and worked with me on choosing our menu and music.
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  • Ruby
    Dedicated October 2019
    Ruby ·
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    I always ask FH before I buy things but he rarely has any useful input "whatever you want"

    sigghhh

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  • BREE
    Beginner October 2019
    BREE ·
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    I have, but he has been super helpful throughout the process and has helped me stay grounded.
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  • Ashley
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Ashley ·
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    Definitely me!
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  • M
    Dedicated October 2021
    Millicent ·
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    It is me. He only has strong opinions on what he's going to wear, the food, and who is being invited from his side. Suits me, I'm a better planner.

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  • Paulette
    Expert April 2021
    Paulette ·
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    Well, right now it's me. When I bring things to him, he has his opinions and tries to change it but it will go my way.

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  • Stephanie
    Super August 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    Definitely me! But I'm also the super organized, mildly OCD planner one in the relationship and actually have enjoyed the planning process a lot! He had opinions, and would have input when I asked, but I definitely did all of the leg work!

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  • Sierra
    Dedicated December 2019
    Sierra ·
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    I've tried sharing the decision making, I don't mind getting it done, but I have tried every time to get his input, but he is leaving 90% up to me. He doesn't seem to understand that I'm not like most brides that we know and I don't care about most of this...I have preferences, but if those don't work out, fine. Do something else. I'm not picky, and my only "requirement" is that he shows up. On time xD Smiley heart

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  • Andria.
    Beginner September 2019
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    I did only because I enjoyed doing everything. But he also would help me out if I needed advice or suggestions.
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  • Samantha
    Beginner August 2021
    Samantha ·
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    So far I have, but he is always willing to help out whenever I ask for opinions or help with anything.
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  • Rachel
    Savvy May 2022
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    So far... ME. But he is helping when I ask for his opinion and that’s what counts.
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