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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who did most of the wedding planning?

Lynnie, on May 28, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 344

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Here's a question that really counts! Smiley winking Who did most of the wedding planning? You or your fiancé(e)?


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344 Comments

  • MD
    Super July 2019
    MD ·
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    HA! Definitely me. I have done probably 99% of planning, and even his 1% I have to help him with because the man is just not motivated.

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  • Tiffany
    Savvy May 2021
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    🙋 I ask him when I need his help 😂 😉 he's in charge of the hunnymoon tho
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  • Gabriela
    Dedicated November 2020
    Gabriela ·
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    Mostly me. I’ll give him choices and he’ll tell me which he likes better or which is worse.
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  • Emily
    Devoted December 2021
    Emily ·
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    I am planning 100% of this wedding. My FH is not interested in planning any of it.
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  • Marlena
    Expert June 2020
    Marlena ·
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    Me. Usually FH just tells me "if that's what you want." He has picked 3 things on his own for the wedding that he wanted and he's in charge of the lighting
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  • R
    Savvy June 2019
    Rosie ·
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    Me. FH was too busy with work and finishing college
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  • Larisa
    Devoted July 2019
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    Definitely me. I’d ask for his opinion and rarely didn’t get “whatever you want babe” or if I asked him to choose between options it’s “which do you like more?” It’s okay though, he’s there when it counts.
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  • Genevieve
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Genevieve ·
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    Me of course. He just picked the wedding date.
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  • Tara
    Master May 2020
    Tara ·
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    There wasn’t anything to really plan but I suppose I did since I’m the one who contacted our two vendors (photographer and florist).
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  • Cori
    Devoted June 2020
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    I would say we have had equal parts in the planning. I do the research and he contacts the vendors as needed as well as give opinions/suggestions as well. I have felt very supportive through this whole process.

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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    Mainly ME (90/10). But I worked 10 years as a wedding planner, so 🤷🏽‍♀️ Lol! However, I love when he shares ideas/ input. But all the rest of this girly wedding planning isn’t his thing (understandably so).
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    We're supposed to be splitting this evenly.


    ...I'm totally in charge and doing most of it. (I complain a little bit, but I'm a total Ravenclaw.)

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  • M
    Beginner April 2020
    Megan ·
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    Definitely me, he isn't too interested in the details just wants me to be happy.
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  • Aingeal
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Aingeal ·
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    Me by a landslide
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  • Just Said Yes November 2020
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    I’m doing all of the research and planning but no final decisions has been made yet since I’m indecisive.
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  • La Keya
    Beginner July 2022
    La Keya ·
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    Me 🤣, currently still planning, I’ll probably have to just tell him what suit to wear.
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  • J
    Just Said Yes May 2019
    Jazzmin ·
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    I did all of the planning. He just agreed haha
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  • Katie
    Just Said Yes September 2020
    Katie ·
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    We've just begun but so far I've been more involved with wedding planning (but to be fair I love event planning so it's not much of a chore for me); I will definitely ask him to help me narrow down certain things though.

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  • Angela
    Beginner July 2020
    Angela ·
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    I do more of the wedding planning but we work together on everything, I care about what he likes and wants and vise versa.
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  • R
    Just Said Yes June 2020
    Reagan ·
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    So far me, I’m very detail oriented
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