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Mrs. S
Master November 2019

Who else has a long countdown?

Mrs. S, on January 15, 2019 at 2:57 PM

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I started at 595 days and I’m now at 313. I was feeling good about it until I realized today that at the end of January I’ll only be halfway through my engagement. Anyone else feel like time is dragging?
I started at 595 days and I’m now at 313. I was feeling good about it until I realized today that at the end of January I’ll only be halfway through my engagement. Anyone else feel like time is dragging?

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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    I’m glad time went by quick for you! You’re almost there!
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  • Kristin
    Super November 2019
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    We've got all of our vendors set, thank God! Bought my dress back in December, picked out my bms dresses but wont order till may. Working on getting a block of hotel rooms and transport to and from the hotel and venue for us and everyone else. Save the dates will go out early Feb, I've got all my names and addresses for those, waiting on 2 from my FH and full lists from the moms (they have a due date of 1/31 lol) I want to start working on my center pieces but my flowers (Fake) are trapped at the chicago USPS because of the shutdown. Where are you in you planning?
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    The crazy thing is I live in colorado now and I’m from Charlotte, NC but my wedding is about 2.5 hours away from Charlotte. So I did all my diys early and left them in NC. Some stuff I took back at Christmas, but I’m still going to have to ship some stuff ahead of time and keep it at my parents or mohs house, then drive it up there that weekend. I’m also nervous about the marriage license bc I have to get it the day before and hope there’s no issues with timing or paperwork. I keep telling myself worse case scenario we can still have the ceremony and make it legal a few days later if anything goes wrong.
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    Omg hopefully you’ll get your flowers! I’ve got the photographer, officiant, ceremony musicians, florist, hmua, and venue booked, diys done, bm dresses picked out, my dress ready to go. But I still need to book the dj, caterer, and bakery. My half of the save the dates went out Jan 3 bc my fiancé never got me his half of the list after 2 months of asking. I’m flying to the town where the venue is in March to do some tastings, have my hair trial and look at rentals!
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  • Christina
    Savvy September 2021
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    Not really 2019 can take its time. I’ve got a lot of big parts of the wedding planned out
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
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    I wanted to send ours then too but unfortunately was waiting on hotel for weeks after I turned in my contract

    we have them all addressed and ready to go I just wanted the website final with active Block and I finally got the email this afternoon so they could go tomorrow but i probably want to take them (wedding milestones and all that Jazz) so it will probably be Saturday
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    That’s awesome sounds like you’re really on top of it!
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    The hotel I wanted won’t let me book a block til April, so I just wrote check back in April for hotel block info. I wasn’t going to wait three more months for that. It’ll be so exciting when you send them Saturday!
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  • Jenna
    Super October 2019
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    Oh wow that sounds so hectic! How come it has to be the day before? Is that just because of when you'll be there next?
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    Well in NC it has to be within 60 days and we don’t have extra money/days off to fly out there again in September or October. I’m just going to call ahead to make sure we do everything right and hope it works out.
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  • Cayla
    Dedicated August 2020
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    I have 577 days to go and majority of everything planned. I just want it to be wedding day but day dreaming about it helps me through the boring and bad days
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  • Veronica
    Expert June 2021
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    Girl I am planning now but I feel like I still have so much time still 😭
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    I like day dreaming about it too but then it doesn’t even feel real!
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    Gotcha. I did a lot of planning and then I was kind of like...now what?
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  • Jenna
    Super October 2019
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    Ahhh okay. Well good luck! Like you said, worst case you'll have to make it legal a little later. Luckily in CA you have 90 days beforehand to get it and my bridal shower is a month before so I think we're going to make that a longer weekend and get it then.
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    Super September 2019
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    Yes!!! Started at 730 days, now at 247.... we’re getting there!
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    You’ve definitely come a long way!
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I'm sorry you think it's too long! For me, it's been so much less stressful. I felt like we had more time for venue tours and tastings, and I had more time to really research all the vendors before booking. My bridesmaids are all happy about the extra time to save too, since most of them have to fly to Colorado. Our guest room has been a wedding room with random decor & things for way too long but we are 6 months out now (in 4 days) and really all our major vendors are booked so I can focus on little touches.

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  • Jessica
    Expert June 2025
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    We started at 803 days ago when we got engaged and have 527 days left till the big I do. 5 year engagment about for us.
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    No not yet. I don't have the money to put down on one right now and I don't want to get my hopes dashed. Hopefully once income taxes come back

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