"Who gets cake in their face?" Bet

It's money grubby and tacky. Don't do it.

I wasn't going to do it.. I was asking what the point is..

I have never seen heard or seen this...ever

My fh was a gm in a wedding in October where they did this and I was super disappointed. Very tacky

No, it's stupid and tacky.

Never heard of this. Gross.

Not a fan of this idea at all.

The ones I've seen, cake in the face went to the person with the most money in their jar.

Regardless, the point is to get money from guests.

Which, we all know is a no-no.

Exactly, that's what I thought too. It's just as bad as just out right walking up to guests to ask for money. I'm glad to see I'm not the only one who thought this was not okay

This is ridiculous.

FH has been warned that if he shoves cake in my face he will be miserable for a while afterwards. We are not doing cake shoving. I certainly would not ask my guests to bring out money during my wedding. If they tip the bartenders, cool, I will be doing so after also if they dont.

No dollar dance, no jars for money, no honeyfund. My grandmother would be rolling over in her grave if I was asking for money. So tacky.

Another stupid, tasteless way to collect money.

I hate this for numerous reasons.

1. They are fundraising at their wedding. You don't ask your guest for money!

2. I wouldn't want to start my marriage off by him humiliating me in front of family. I understand the bride & groom may have agreed to this in advance but often time it gets out of hand and someone gets pisses.

3. You get your hair and makeup done for the wedding. Then cut the cake and someone smears frosting all in your face. Chances are it'll get in your hair too. So all that money you paid is a waste!

Ick! I would be so embarrassed to have something like this at my wedding.

Up there with honeyfund for me. Money grabs are not classy.

My FH is well aware his life may be on the line if cake goes in my face!!! I will never understand the point of the cake to face thing.

I have seen people post about it in some Facebook groups; to me it is like a money dance. I also find putting cake in someone's face disrespectful.

@PinkFlamingo FH and I JUST discussed this at dinner tonight and I literally said those words to him haha

Shameless and tacky way to make a few bucks

I also feel strongly anticake. Will be pissed if it happens, probably annul the marriage or something

FH already knows that all hell will break lose if he shoves cake in my face