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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is in your wedding party?

Lynnie, on June 25, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 144

Who did you ask to be in your "I do" crew?? Friends, family, or a little bit of both? Photo from Envy Lifestyle & Event Design in Orlando Next Question: Who did you share your engagement news with first? Back to the Beginning: Friends or family?

Who did you ask to be in your "I do" crew?? Friends, family, or a little bit of both?


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Photo from Envy Lifestyle & Event Design in Orlando



Next Question: Who did you share your engagement news with first?

Back to the Beginning: Friends or family?

144 Comments

  • G
    Dedicated July 2022
    Genevieve ·
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    Mostly friends, but my sister is MOH. We’re trying to find some way to honor our brothers too though.
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  • Kendra
    Devoted September 2019
    Kendra ·
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    Mostly family, 1 person is a friend.
    Maid of Honor- FH sister
    Maid of Honor- Best friend since daycare
    Best man- FH Dad
    Groomsmen- FH sisters fiancé
    Flower girl- My cousin
    Flower girl- Best friends daughter (MOH)
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  • Fmv
    Super October 2020
    Fmv ·
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    Mostly family.
    My brother, my brothers wife, my fiances brother and sister, his sisters fiance. My cousins, 2 of of his friends and 2 of my friends
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  • Laura
    VIP November 2019
    Laura ·
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    FH’s best man is his best friend since middle school, his brother is a groomsman (mostly to placate his mom, they aren’t close). My MOH is my BFF of almost 20 years, another long time friend is my bridesmaid. No flower girl or ring bearer. MOH’s son deemed himself “too old” to be the ring bearer as that’s a baby job and he’s big now (he’s 10).
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  • Julia
    Beginner April 2020
    Julia ·
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    We are doing no wedding party. It's a small wedding and they are all my very close friends, so didn't want to choose. Also, it's easier this way

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  • C
    Super January 2020
    Cassie ·
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    I wanted more bridesmaids but my FH wanted a smaller wedding party. I’m still sad I wasn’t able to ask some of my dearest friends. I have my niece, sister, and best friend. My FH has his nephew and 2 best friends.
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  • Alicia
    Dedicated October 2019
    Alicia ·
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    My MOH is my best friend, then my bridesmaids are my other best friends and sister-in-law to be. My flower girls are my daughter, my niece and my Junior Bridesmaid is my cousin. My fiances best man is his best friend, followed by his other good friends and my brother as groomsmen.

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  • Mikaela
    Beginner September 2021
    Mikaela ·
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    No wedding party! We’re eloping. We invited 20 of our closest friends and family to be apart of the day with us.
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  • Erin
    Expert May 2020
    Erin ·
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    Both! Mostly friends though!

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    My sisters, and my fsils, also fbils and a life long family friend

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  • Maggie
    Super April 2020
    Maggie ·
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    But of both, but my sister is close to getting kicked out 🤷🏻‍♀️
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  • Bailey
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Bailey ·
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    Both. 2 of my sisters are co-MOHs and my 3rd sister is a bridesmaid (mostly bc she lives in Massachusetts and the rest of us are in Virginia, but shes going to give the speech at the reception instead of my MOHs) and then a friend is my 2nd bridesmaid.
    His brother is his Best Man and has 3 friends as groomsmen.
    And my twin nephews are going to be our ring bearers.
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  • Erika
    Dedicated August 2020
    Erika ·
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    For my bridal party family and those girlfriends that have been my "day 1" and always there for me. The groomsmen are made up mostly of his close friends who are like family to him and his one brother.

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  • C
    Devoted September 2019
    Caitlyn ·
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    Family for me and friends for FH.

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  • Rica
    Dedicated September 2018
    Rica ·
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    More family. We each had our best friend as MOH and BM. Then my two SILs and my cousin were bridesmaids, and his two brother and my brother were groomsmen. We each had a few more friends we would have liked to include, but the way we did it made the decision easy and didn't make anyone in particular feel left out. Drama free for sure! We honored close, extra supportive friends in other ways. One of my friends did a reading and one of his played a song at the ceremony, so we invited them to the rehearsal dinner and got to celebrate in a more intimate setting. Another of my friends who is super crafty and helped me a lot was also invited.

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  • F
    Beginner October 2020
    Future Mrs T ·
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    I think I will have family only (SIL, God Sisters (2), and cousin). I am scared to add my high school friend because we haven't talked much (but still love each other).

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  • Olivia
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Olivia ·
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    Mostly friends. My fiance is having his brother be the best man.

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  • Alyssa
    Devoted October 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    On my end it’s all friends. On my FH side it’s family. All of the groomsmen are his brothers except for the groomswoman and his best man will be his oldest son. Ring bearer is our youngest sons and flower girl is our daughter.
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  • K
    Expert February 2020
    Kristina ·
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    All friends for the brides side, and a mixture of friends and family for the grooms side.

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  • Ashley
    Dedicated June 2019
    Ashley ·
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    I had my sister, 2 cousins, and then the rest were friends!

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