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Lynnie
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Who is inviting more guests? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:53 PM

Posted in Planning 180

Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!! Whether you have a huge family or just had a harder time trimming down your guest list - inevitably your guest list will not be evenly split 50/50 between the two of you! Who is inviting more guests to the wedding? You or your fiancé(e)??...

Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!!

Whether you have a huge family or just had a harder time trimming down your guest list - inevitably your guest list will not be evenly split 50/50 between the two of you! Who is inviting more guests to the wedding? You or your fiancé(e)??


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180 Comments

  • Mrs.BowmanToBe
    Dedicated August 2018
    Mrs.BowmanToBe ·
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    I'm inviting more. My family is a bit bigger, so our list is 75 mine, 49 his, 26 mutual friends.

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  • B
    Beginner December 2018
    Betzaida ·
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    I am. We start with a equal amount but, since I have more family and friends that live near us...
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  • C
    Devoted April 2019
    Cheyenne ·
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    My side will definitely be the majority.
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  • Inga
    Just Said Yes August 2019
    Inga ·
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    Truth be told we are both having a hard time trimming down our lists because both us come from large families.
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  • S
    Beginner October 2018
    Sarah ·
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    Umm, not entirely sure. He's definitely inviting more people that will actually come than I am.
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  • PrincessLawrence
    VIP June 2018
    PrincessLawrence ·
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    My family is much bigger so def me lol

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  • Gipperkm
    Super September 2018
    Gipperkm ·
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    If you combine his and the guests his mom wants there, he is inviting more. His family is huge!
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  • Tanya
    Expert May 2018
    Tanya ·
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    FH has more guests because more of his family is invited. My mom is my only blood relative that will be there. 4 other guests are my friends that are chosen family.
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  • Tanya
    Expert May 2018
    Tanya ·
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    I'll tear up for longer, but he'll cry more often I think.
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  • Mrs. G
    Devoted April 2019
    Mrs. G ·
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    I am! I'm scared that we won't have people show up so I am inviting as many as our budget will allow! Lol. He on the other hand could not care less about who shows up.

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  • M
    Super October 2018
    Michelle ·
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    We are only inviting 10 people. 4 is his parents, sister and brother-in-law. 4 are my parents, brother, and sister-in-law. The other two are my long-time friends (known over 10 years each). He has gotten to know them both so he considers them friends too.
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    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Tanaia ·
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    I am inviting more guests
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  • Orchids
    Master March 2018
    Orchids ·
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    He did. I have a bigger immediate family but he was WAY more friends.

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  • Tara
    Master September 2018
    Tara ·
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    Me because most of his family lives in WA and most woukdnt be abke to make it. But my friends and family al LOVE him so they are his guests too😊
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  • A
    Beginner October 2020
    Abre ·
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    He is everyone we see he invites lol
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  • S
    Devoted June 2018
    Sarah ·
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    50/50 I would say. We did put a limit on his family though since it is huge
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  • M
    Beginner May 2019
    Mandi ·
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    Definitely me! It's a more intimate wedding and my family is more involved in our lives!
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  • Kaylyn
    Super May 2019
    Kaylyn ·
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    Fiancée, her family is huge!
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  • Shayna
    Super August 2018
    Shayna ·
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    I have a larger family and by default have more guests invited.
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  • Katie
    Dedicated November 2020
    Katie ·
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    Definitely me, just because i have the larger family
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