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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is inviting more guests? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:53 PM

Posted in Planning 180

Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!! Whether you have a huge family or just had a harder time trimming down your guest list - inevitably your guest list will not be evenly split 50/50 between the two of you! Who is inviting more guests to the wedding? You or your fiancé(e)??...

Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!!

Whether you have a huge family or just had a harder time trimming down your guest list - inevitably your guest list will not be evenly split 50/50 between the two of you! Who is inviting more guests to the wedding? You or your fiancé(e)??


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180 Comments

  • Heather
    Expert August 2018
    Heather ·
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    Him. We have 70 ppl invited and my family and friends count for 15 of them, lol
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  • calwhitt012
    Beginner March 2019
    calwhitt012 ·
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    I am! Probably 70%/30%. I had to cut some of mine, too!
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  • calwhitt012
    Beginner March 2019
    calwhitt012 ·
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    ME🙋‍♀️ 100%. Even though he did tear up when he proposed.
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  • Jaycie
    Expert March 2019
    Jaycie ·
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    We tried to each make a list of 75 each. My list is right under 75 and his just barely over. We both have very large families and agreed we weren't doing far into extended family.
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  • Katelyn
    Devoted January 2019
    Katelyn ·
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    We only had a budget for 50 people so we decided it would only be fair to split that in half. 25 for me. 25 for him.
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  • Kendra
    Dedicated November 2019
    Kendra ·
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    The list is far from finished but he is not close with his family and keeps a small circle of friends so I will have like 90% of the guests
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  • C
    Savvy April 2019
    Cassandra ·
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    He is. He has a larger family than I do.
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  • MrsPreach2018
    Master August 2018
    MrsPreach2018 ·
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    We're about pretty even on the guest list.
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  • L
    Savvy March 2019
    Luisa ·
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    He is by a long shot! Probably rounded 80/20
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  • A
    Expert April 2019
    Ashley ·
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    Me for sure. I have more family coming
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  • Alyssa
    Just Said Yes March 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    I am just because of family
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  • Patricia
    Dedicated October 2018
    Patricia ·
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    50/50 give or take a person
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  • J
    Dedicated August 2018
    J.Taylor ·
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    FH has bigger guest list. According to his mother there are “consequences” to not inviting the uncle he hasn’t seen or spoken to in 10 years. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Other than the uncle, he has a TON of friends and most have spouses. I am inviting just two friends and have 7 family members coming.
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  • Heather
    Expert September 2018
    Heather ·
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    Him
    He has 3 tables for his family about 3 more for his friends
    I have 3 tables my family
    His mom too id get texts when i wss making my list to add so and so
    But some of them are his friends that turned into my friends so i added them to the list before i showed the list to him
    So maybe some he wouldnt have invited
    Oh well
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  • A
    Devoted March 2019
    Amanda ·
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    He has a bigger family so most likely he will have a bigger portion of the guest list.
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  • S
    Dedicated June 2018
    Shala ·
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    When we originally fine the list her was we cut it down and then we were requested with everyone RSVP I did
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  • Kelsey Brielle
    Super June 2022
    Kelsey Brielle ·
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    I'm sure I am. He doesn't want certain family members there.
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  • Faith
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Faith ·
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    Me mostly I have a lot of friends
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  • T
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Tyesha ·
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    Both of us have equal amount of people coming
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  • M
    Devoted July 2018
    Mrs. Terelo ·
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    Me technically but only because I have a big family.
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