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Lynnie
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Who is inviting more guests? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:53 PM

Posted in Planning 180

Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!! Whether you have a huge family or just had a harder time trimming down your guest list - inevitably your guest list will not be evenly split 50/50 between the two of you! Who is inviting more guests to the wedding? You or your fiancé(e)??...

Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!!

Whether you have a huge family or just had a harder time trimming down your guest list - inevitably your guest list will not be evenly split 50/50 between the two of you! Who is inviting more guests to the wedding? You or your fiancé(e)??


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180 Comments

  • Toni Jones
    Beginner December 2022
    Toni Jones ·
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    I have the most guest my family is huge it is a mixture of biological and guardian for me and his family is small
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  • Janice
    Beginner November 2018
    Janice ·
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    Me he has a small family and mine is very large so not including our mutual friends my family is over half the guest list.
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  • Tee
    Devoted January 2019
    Tee ·
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    He is inviting more guest.. he has about 50 more names than I do.
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  • P
    Super January 2019
    PalmTrees ·
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    We’re only having my daughter for sure and then probably our parents. So I guess me as I have two parents and he has one.
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  • Mamagypsy13
    Savvy November 2018
    Mamagypsy13 ·
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    He's definitely inviting more people, I feel like he wants more of his family there.
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  • J
    Beginner April 2019
    Jael ·
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    I think we are about even. His family is bigger but I'm inviting more friends.
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  • Cierra
    Savvy June 2019
    Cierra ·
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    I think it’s pretty 50-50! We’ve been together for 5 years so his family is basically mine and vice versa.
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  • T
    Beginner June 2019
    Taishai ·
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    He has more friends and family he deals with
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  • K
    Just Said Yes June 2021
    Katrina ·
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    Me, he has grown claoser to my family then his own anyways
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  • Karley
    Just Said Yes March 2019
    Karley ·
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    It’s actually about the same surprisingly! His mom is one of 16 😬
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  • Becca
    Devoted October 2019
    Becca ·
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    Not sure yet. Depending on where the wedding location will be, I could potentially invite and have more show up. I think we are aiming for a 50/50 split though. Small wedding --> don't want anything large.

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  • K
    Beginner May 2019
    Kara ·
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    Most of the guests are on his side since i dont have much family.
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  • K
    Beginner September 2019
    Katy ·
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    His side but not by much more then mine. He just happens to have a bigger family.
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  • N
    Just Said Yes June 2020
    Natasha ·
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    He is! His family is HUGE! At least 200 people belong to him lol.
    I have about 50.
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  • kymarmck
    Super March 2020
    kymarmck ·
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    Hands down, me. I have a much larger family than he does!

    However, he is inviting more friends than I am.

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  • La Shonda
    Beginner October 2020
    La Shonda ·
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    I'm inviting more guests but dont expect them all to come being that we are getting married in Aruba. Just covering all bases to ensure no one feels left out.
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  • M
    Beginner February 2019
    Milinda ·
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    We equally have the same amount its going to be a small event with just close family and friends

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  • Jessica
    Beginner October 2019
    Jessica ·
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    It’ll probably be just about equal. We’ve decided that only our most important friends and family sound be ther and we both have pretty big families.
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  • Megan
    Beginner October 2018
    Megan ·
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    Me, mostly because my family lives here and his has to travel. All of our friends are mutual because he's been my best friend since I was 15 so we mostly know the same people.
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  • N
    Beginner October 2021
    Nelly ·
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    He definitely is. He has a big family.
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