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Lynnie
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Who is inviting more guests? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:53 PM

Posted in Planning 180

Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!! Whether you have a huge family or just had a harder time trimming down your guest list - inevitably your guest list will not be evenly split 50/50 between the two of you! Who is inviting more guests to the wedding? You or your fiancé(e)??...

Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!!

Whether you have a huge family or just had a harder time trimming down your guest list - inevitably your guest list will not be evenly split 50/50 between the two of you! Who is inviting more guests to the wedding? You or your fiancé(e)??


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180 Comments

  • MD
    Super July 2019
    MD ·
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    We're pretty even. He definitely has more family, but I have more coworkers that I am inviting.

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  • Theresa
    Beginner September 2019
    Theresa ·
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    It's pretty equal acrually, but all my friends and family are out of state. He has many more in state than I do so I expect that he will have many more people at our wedding than me
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  • Kylee
    Dedicated September 2018
    Kylee ·
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    I did. But my family and friends are all close to where we got married and his traveled across the country

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  • Melissa
    Dedicated April 2019
    Melissa ·
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    Me! I've added some to his list!

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  • AlmostAMurphy
    Devoted November 2018
    AlmostAMurphy ·
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    It’s pretty close to 50/50, but I have a few more people invited.
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  • Shelli
    Savvy October 2019
    Shelli ·
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    Um maybe me? most of my family has children.

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  • Katie
    Savvy August 2019
    Katie ·
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    We are trying to have majority of our guests be people we both know and have a relationship with... but I'm the extroverted one, so I guess me.

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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann ·
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    Me I have a huge family

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  • K
    Beginner October 2019
    Katie ·
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    I am so far but I think that will change once we move and he gets back in touch with his old buddies.
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  • L
    Beginner January 2019
    Lonnie ·
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    Oh him by far... neither one of us are "people" persons. But, he definitely has the upper hand of the guest list.
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  • Rachael
    Savvy October 2019
    Rachael ·
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    I think it’s almost even. I may have a couple more than him tho

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  • Hannah
    Devoted July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    We both have about the same amount of guests.
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  • Unavailable
    Dedicated January 2043
    Unavailable ·
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    We have an even amount to invite. It’s small destination wedding.
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  • futureMrsC
    Devoted March 2021
    futureMrsC ·
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    Also me lol, we have roughly equal amounts of family, but I have a larger social circle than he does. He likes to keep his friend circle small, I'm a "the more the merrier" type lol
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  • Edward
    Devoted March 2019
    Edward ·
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    I only have a few people coming but my man has a lot more coming. His friends, and family will all be there. I am very excited to meet his friends that live far from us. I’ve talked to them online but we’ve never met in person.
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  • Jessica
    Savvy October 2020
    Jessica ·
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    Family wise? Me. Friends wise, we have alot of couples as friends and mutual friends so thats pretty equal.
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  • L
    Savvy May 2020
    Leah ·
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    Him. And it’s all his family, he has a huge family.
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  • J
    Beginner September 2019
    Jessica ·
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    We're pretty close to half and half but I have a few more people than he does
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  • Karen
    Dedicated October 2023
    Karen ·
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    He'll have more family but I'll have more friends. Not sure who will invite the most.
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  • S
    Savvy April 2024
    Sophia ·
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    Hmm..I have more family, but he has more friends.
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