Who is inviting more guests? You or your fiancé(e)??

Me! I have already about 100 people on my list and 79 on his! Lol.

Me by about 5 people, but we're both inviting a lot of out-of-state friends and family so it's a toss up what it'll look like day-of.

Its about the same. We don't want a big wedding.

Me

I talk to more of my family then he does.

I am, and it's mostly family. My mom is one of nine siblings and each sibling has a significant other and children, who are mostly my age. On his side there is very little family, one aunt, one uncle, and two cousins. Then on the friends side our invite list is pretty scarce for both of us. We tend to just have a few close friends.

We have just about 60 people or so and I have more people than he does. Mostly family, of course but even then I have TONS of family I had to cut off because it just would have been too expensive and I'm totally ok with that.

Him definitely!! But we're pretty even. He only has 4 more peeps on his side coming from a large family.

ME. Most of my guests are family (I have a big extended family) where as his is mostly friends with just a few family members he has left.

I am inviting more family but he is inviting more friends and co-workers. I would say we are pretty even.

I am, I have a bigger family, but less friends. He has more friends, but less family.

Neither. We're having impromptu witnesses, and no guests. No reception either.