Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is more decisive?

Flag
Hide content

Lynnie, on May 28, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Are you the decisive one in the relationship? Or do you spend forever weighing your options? Who is more decisive? You or your fiancé(e)? Photo by Mariah Elise Photography in Brookings, SD Next Question: Who's in charge of dealing with spiders? Back to the Beginning: You or your fiancé(e)? ...

Are you the decisive one in the relationship? Or do you spend forever weighing your options?

Who is more decisive? You or your fiancé(e)?

Photo by Mariah Elise Photography in Brookings, SD

Next Question: Who's in charge of dealing with spiders?

Back to the Beginning: You or your fiancé(e)?

Show all

387 Comments

Just Said Yes October 2019
Autumn · on June 4, 2019 at 10:15 PM
Flag

Hide content
Tough answer.. I feel I am more decisive in our relationship with big choices, being I can see both a pro's and con's of the choice you make. He tends to lead the way with those bigger choices.. But, I do enjoy leading the way with smaller decisions more often! I love picking out new experiences/adventures!
- Reply
Beginner October 2019
Brittany · on June 4, 2019 at 10:21 PM
Flag

Hide content
He is more decisive, I always let him make the final choice since I like all the choices I give him. He finds away to figure out what my favorite is! AND seems to make the final decision I could have made!
- Reply
Beginner September 2020
Julie · on June 4, 2019 at 11:52 PM
Flag

Hide content
I’m the more decisive one for sure lol
- Reply
VIP September 2019
latasha · on June 4, 2019 at 11:58 PM
Flag

Hide content
Hmm this is tough. I would say this is a 50/50 thing. I feel like I’m different areas I am but the areas I’m not he is lol.
- Reply
Just Said Yes September 2020
Heather · on June 5, 2019 at 5:59 AM
Flag

Hide content
He is probably better at making the decisions. I tend to go back & forth.
- Reply
Just Said Yes May 2020
Brittany · on June 5, 2019 at 7:25 AM
Flag

Hide content
I’m more the discussion maker
- Reply
Devoted October 2019
Mariana · on June 5, 2019 at 8:15 AM
Flag

Hide content
Both, definitely both. When I don't decide or choose, he does it or when he can't or won't, I will.
- Reply
Savvy July 2021
Amanda · on June 5, 2019 at 10:33 AM
Flag

Hide content
He is definitely more decisive. I have weight all my options and plan things out way in advance and then I am still unsure. He can make a decision on the spot and stick to it and make it happen.
- Reply
Just Said Yes July 2020
April · on June 5, 2019 at 12:04 PM
Flag

Hide content
I weigh everything before making a decision he’s the quick one.
- Reply
Just Said Yes October 2020
Haley · on June 5, 2019 at 12:14 PM
Flag

Hide content
I will take this one. I always trying to find anything that could go wrong or right
- Reply
Savvy September 2020
Arden · on June 5, 2019 at 12:14 PM
Flag

Hide content
We both make decisions. But I'm considered more picky so I often am the one that has to decide more.
- Reply
Just Said Yes August 2021
Chelsea · on June 5, 2019 at 12:33 PM
Flag

Hide content
Depends on the situation but he usually makes most of the decisions
- Reply
Legend June 2019
Melle · on June 5, 2019 at 2:02 PM
Flag

Hide content
I would say I am purely for the fact that I tend to know what I want more than he does because he has the whole 'whatever is fine" attitude
- Reply
Beginner June 2023
Shelby · on June 5, 2019 at 3:05 PM
Flag

Hide content
I’m really bad at deciding things like what to have for dinner. But when it comes to big life changing decisions I’m better at making and planning those out.
- Reply
Just Said Yes December 2024
Jordana · on June 5, 2019 at 3:24 PM
Flag

Hide content
When it comes to wedding planning it’s me, everyday life at dinner time, def him!
- Reply
Savvy July 2020
Emmie · on June 5, 2019 at 3:40 PM
Flag

Hide content
He is definitely more decisive than I am... I think 😂
- Reply
Just Said Yes July 2020
Michelle · on June 5, 2019 at 5:16 PM
Flag

Hide content
He definitely is
- Reply
Just Said Yes September 2020
Jadelyne · on June 5, 2019 at 7:54 PM
Flag

Hide content
Both of us
- Reply
Dedicated January 2022
Kimpossible · on June 5, 2019 at 8:50 PM
Flag

Hide content
Definitely more decisive than my fiance he did say it's up to you whatever you want to do is your day
- Reply

Savvy October 2020
Aubrey · on June 6, 2019 at 8:29 AM
Flag

Hide content
It depends.... making big decisions is definitely me. When I have my mind made up I just do it. When it comes to dinner, not me.... I do not want the responsibility of picking food and usually I am too HANGRY to make a logical decision.
- Reply