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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is more decisive?

Lynnie, on May 28, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 387

Are you the decisive one in the relationship? Or do you spend forever weighing your options? Who is more decisive? You or your fiancé(e)? Photo by Mariah Elise Photography in Brookings, SD Next Question: Who's in charge of dealing with spiders? Back to the Beginning: You or your fiancé(e)? ...

Are you the decisive one in the relationship? Or do you spend forever weighing your options?

Who is more decisive? You or your fiancé(e)?


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Photo by Mariah Elise Photography in Brookings, SD

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Back to the Beginning: You or your fiancé(e)?

387 Comments

  • E
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    E.D. ·
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    For sure I'm more decisive than he is.
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  • S
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Shawndrea ·
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    He is definitely 😂
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  • K
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Kristi ·
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    I am. He usually asks my opinion on things because he knows I will weigh both odds or give it to him straight.
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  • Chelsey
    Beginner October 2019
    Chelsey ·
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    I am very indecisive so he makes me decide on things so I'll get better at it.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes May 2022
    Jonathan ·
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    I'm going to say me but it depends on the scenario
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  • futureMrsC
    Devoted March 2021
    futureMrsC ·
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    Depends.. are we trying to decide what's for dinner tonight?? But typically I'm the more indecisive one. He is laid back but will usually make up his mind sooner than I will.
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  • Sinaya
    Devoted August 2022
    Sinaya ·
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    He is, but I’m the one who weighs pros and cons.
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  • Rachel
    Expert September 2019
    Rachel ·
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    LOL, me for sure, 200%. I have literally moved across the world on a whim, while he weighs everything so extremely carefully that I sometimes have to drag him into making any sort of decision in any time frame! We compliment each other that way. Smiley winking

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  • L
    Beginner September 2019
    Lisa ·
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    That would be me!

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  • Angela
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Angela ·
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    He is definitely more decisive. I can't decide what to drink at a restaurant... I overthink everything too much.
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  • Amber
    Beginner November 2019
    Amber ·
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    He is the risk taker and I just go with the flow.
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    Just Said Yes June 2021
    Emily ·
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    Definitely me! I make all the decisions with maybe a few what do you thinks thrown in.
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    Just Said Yes August 2019
    Tiffany ·
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    He is FOR SURE! Lol. We're both pretty confident, but I'm learning from him to be more confident in my decisions. Smiley smile

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  • Jennifer
    Beginner August 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    If you believe in horoscopes then you would understand. My fiancé was born September 7 1983 and I was born September 8 1985. We are both indecisive. He is like my twin but I can be more manly at times if that makes sense?
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    Just Said Yes September 2020
    Amy ·
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    This is equal, we both have to talk thru everything
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  • Shakira
    Beginner August 2021
    Shakira ·
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    It is hard for me to make a decision real fast

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  • Stephanie
    Just Said Yes October 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    I would say I am
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  • Liz
    Just Said Yes April 2021
    Liz ·
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    Me, for sure.
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  • K
    Dedicated June 2020
    Kellie ·
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    I think we are pretty even.
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  • Sweetness
    Dedicated March 2023
    Sweetness ·
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    My FH is a complex man. Well, I think so. He's pretty decisive when it comes to...err...(insert example here). Maybe not so decisive then. I can be very indecisive, particularly over little things, like picking a sandwich for lunch. But I do get worse when I am hungry, which seems to be related to my blood sugar levels. I'm also hopeless when I'm tired.

    Larger stuff I tend to decide fairly quickly, which is odd. If it involves spending money, we both debate it for a while before making a choice. We both ask ourselves "Do I really want/need this thing?" before we make a purchase. When we were in the supermarket on my first visit out to him (we are a long distance couple), we both stood in front of the freezer cabinet for a long time, not picking anything up! Smiley xd

    It is something we will both have to work on, obviously. Smiley laugh

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