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Who is more strict about sticking to the budget? You or your fiancé(e)?

Rebecca, on November 13, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 230

When it comes down the wedding budget, who manages your spreadsheets? Is one of you inclined to spend a little more? Or are you both equally money-conscious? Who is more strict about sticking to the budget - you or your fiancé(e)? Photo via @weddingwire Next Question: Whose parents are more...

When it comes down the wedding budget, who manages your spreadsheets? Is one of you inclined to spend a little more? Or are you both equally money-conscious? Who is more strict about sticking to the budget - you or your fiancé(e)?

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Next Question: Whose parents are more involved in the planning? Your parents or your fiancé(e)'s?

Or start from the beginning here: You or your fiancé(e)?


230 Comments

  • Erin
    Beginner August 2020
    Erin ·
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    What budget? Lol. Him of course!
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  • H
    Savvy October 2019
    Haley ·
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    I manage the budget like writing everything down and what not. I try to find the best options for the lowest price. But I'm also more likely to spend a little extra money on this or that. Where he's very budget concious.
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  • Unavailable
    Dedicated January 2043
    Unavailable ·
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    My fiancé!!!
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  • K
    Beginner January 2019
    Karam ·
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    I am more about the budget.

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  • A
    Beginner September 2019
    Ashley ·
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    We are equally strict about the budget. We've planned for some wiggle room on a few things.
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Ahhh that's so nice!! Do you two still try to keep track of what you spend on the wedding?!

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  • EllieRose
    Expert February 2020
    EllieRose ·
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    Me! It's the accountant in me, I love my spreadsheets!!
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  • S
    Just Said Yes August 2019
    Samantha ·
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    I am more strict about money lol
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Omg I can barely use Excel!! My boyfriend tried to make me a budget sheet and I didn't like to use it because it wasn't colorful enough

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  • EllieRose
    Expert February 2020
    EllieRose ·
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    Oh my! The data to pie chart is amazing!! So many colors!!
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  • Shaylene
    Beginner September 2021
    Shaylene ·
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    I would say me. After the bills are paid money is free game. There's not much left but it's better than nothing.
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  • J
    Dedicated December 2018
    Jack ·
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    I think we're about equal. We've each given into the other on certain splurges that only one of us wanted - I got my photographer and an absolute buttload of champagne, she got her kombi vans and insane amount of pillar candles & vases. But for all the areas where we've gone a little buku, we've made cuts in other parts.

    We've kept a meticulous balance sheet of all our money spent vs money remaining, our remaining payments due, and our anticipated expenses, and we're still right on track for where we should be. That's even factoring in two grand for a marquee in case it rains... God, I hope it doesn't rain.

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  • A
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Amanda ·
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    I am. He is getting better at it though to be fair. Smiley smile

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  • Angela
    Just Said Yes August 2020
    Angela ·
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    I'm taking care of the budget but I do run things by him because we are both sharing in the cost. Right now I'm doing all the planning alone with the event planner my fiancé and I decided to hire. I want mention what side but they have what I heard my mother use to say "a take over spirit" but not on my watch!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    It sounds like you two are the perfect balance!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Are you teaching him?!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    That would be my response too! Lol

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    I'm going to have to look into that! He just had green and red. It looked like Christmas!

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  • Rose
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Rose ·
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    Michael is, he believe if you don’t need it, don’t get it. However, I am working on myself.
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  • Shawnese
    Savvy June 2020
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    I am. He doesn’t think about budgeting at all. He calls me cheap all the time but that’s not really the case. 😂
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