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Lynnie
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Who is the planner in your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:52 PM Posted in Planning 0 199

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!!

Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)?


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199 Comments

Latest activity by Squeezy Bean, on December 30, 2020 at 12:38 AM
  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    I am the better planner, he keeps lists but rarely sticks to them.

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  • Mrs. H
    Master September 2019
    Mrs. H ·
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    I am the better planner, but anytime I need his input, he's right there and eager to help!

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  • Pegs
    VIP July 2018
    Pegs ·
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    100% Me. He hasn't really gotten too involved but if I need something, he will drop everything to help.

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    Devoted January 2019
    Brittany ·
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    Me for sure. If it were up to him we would go nowhere and do nothing. I plan our trips, I plan for household shopping and anything else that needs a plan.
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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
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    For this I am. My coworker travels around the world several times a year so he's like my personal travel agent since he knows where to find all the deals. He helped me get hotels for 5 nights and flights to and from Vegas for 3 of us for about $1,100 which was the what I had budgeted for flights alone.

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    Super June 2019
    JuneBride ·
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    Me for sure. However, he is more than willing to help.

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  • Mrs. Sponge
    Master April 2018
    Mrs. Sponge ·
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    I am more of a planner than H is, but neither of us was really into planning the wedding. We would accomplish one thing and give ourselves way to much credit and forget about it for the next few months.

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  • Aliah
    Devoted September 2018
    Aliah ·
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    He plans the relationship like date ideas but I plan the wedding, that’s my project..
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  • Xandria
    VIP December 2018
    Xandria ·
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    I am 100% the planner. I ask her about everything, but I'm the one with options and time lines and plans.

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  • AugustBride
    Super August 2018
    AugustBride ·
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    MEE! I don't trust him to plan - not even a walk to the park lol! I do all of the planning~

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  • KarenO
    Master June 2018
    KarenO ·
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    Definitely me, with some help from my mom. He's had input on everything though.

    Overall, we're pretty spontaneous people, but he does plan date nights now and then.

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  • Mrs.W.
    VIP June 2018
    Mrs.W. ·
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    Definitely me. He's really not detail oriented and the biggest procrastinator I've ever met. lol

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  • Happy Hedgie
    VIP September 2018
    Happy Hedgie ·
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    We both plan and decide everything together, but, I'm definitely the one who spends hours and hours researching every little thing. We then sit down together and make the final decision. That's only because I'm crazy and want to ensure we've looked at every possible option while he'd be fine looking at 3 different options and calling it a day.

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  • Amber
    Beginner May 2023
    Amber ·
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    Definitely me. He’s more of a go with the flow kind of guy.
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  • Kayla
    Expert January 2019
    Kayla ·
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    I am most certainly the planner, he just learned what a table runner was Smiley smile
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    Beginner September 2020
    Elizabeth ·
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    I'm definitely the planner in this relationship
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    Beginner October 2018
    Moriah ·
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    We are both pretty equal. He plans for the financial part and I plan for everything else!
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  • Brianna
    VIP May 2018
    Brianna ·
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    I am for sure the planner. Sometimes I wish FH would help plan more, but then I think I would just be worried about how it would turn out lol. I like to know what's going to happen.

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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    BOTH. It was super-fun planning but we sometimes clashed. We decided I was boss of our DW, he was boss of our local reception. If we couldn't agree on something the boss of that event had final say. lol. A few times we actually had to pull out the "I'M the Executive Producer!!!" card. Smiley xd

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  • FutureMrsC
    Expert October 2019
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    100% me. He was super involved while searching for a venue but once that was done he thought we were done planning lol

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