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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is the planner in your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:52 PM

Posted in Planning 199

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!! Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)? Next Question: Who is inviting more guests?...

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!!

Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)?


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199 Comments

  • Casey
    Just Said Yes February 2019
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    Definitely me!

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  • Terra
    Expert September 2020
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    Absolutely me. He has his opinions, but he really doesn't care much either way about what we end up doing (as long as the food is good and we don't get a lemon wedding cake) because he's never bothered to dream about his future wedding day.

    I willllll say that even though I'm the better all around planner, he's the one with the initiative to put the plans into actions.

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  • Erin
    Just Said Yes March 2020
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    I am the planner. I constantly make lists and always have a plan.

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  • Jenay
    Dedicated October 2024
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    Me. I show him places but mainly me.

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  • Amanda
    Dedicated March 2019
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    A bit of both. I like planning far out and he is definitely more spontaneous, but when it comes to planning something that is important to him he can be a big planner.

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  • Tara
    Master May 2020
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    I’m definitely the planner. My fiancé just goes along with the plans.
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    I am definitely the planner, hands down. He gives his input and suggestions here and there but for the most part, he doesn't bother lol

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  • Kayla
    Dedicated October 2020
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    Definitely definitely me, he would have been perfect content if we had eloped and flown off to Jamaica
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  • Samantha
    Super August 2019
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    Me, he gives me his opinions when I ask and I include him when it's really important but he's rather hands off. He is being a trooper and going with me to do a full 4 day planning weekend in April since it's the only time we can meet vendors - dance lesson, tastings, rentals, bridal expo, the works!!

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  • Shirleyt
    Beginner April 2020
    Shirleyt ·
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    Definitely me he procrastinate more than I do
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  • Katelyn
    Just Said Yes August 2020
    Katelyn ·
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    I am the better planner
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  • A
    Beginner July 2021
    Amanda ·
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    I am no doubt
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  • Lexie
    Savvy October 2020
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    Me. i am completely OCD and plan everything.
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  • Alyssa
    Super September 2019
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    Me 100% lol he plans about 2 hours ahead. I am all about planning!

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  • Stephanie
    Super September 2021
    Stephanie ·
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    I'm a better planner, I have planners, and my planners have planners! lol I like to stay on top of everything.

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  • Shelli
    Savvy October 2019
    Shelli ·
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    I am I am the dreamer who frequently gets knocked back to earth
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  • Brittany
    Dedicated August 2020
    Brittany ·
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    I am the better planner, he has a more go with the flow personality.
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  • Sweetness
    March 2022
    Sweetness ·
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    So far that would be me. He's had "no detailed thoughts" on the event to date, just "general" ones. Those were his words the other week.

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  • Squeezy Bean
    Devoted June 2023
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    I think about the details, whereas he thinks about the wedding minus the details. 🙈
    But in saying that, I would absolutely trust him to take the reigns and plan the whole thing alone. He's smart, competent, thrifty, creative and romantic.
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