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Who is the planner in your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)??

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Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:52 PM

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Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!! Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)? Next Question: Who is inviting more guests?...

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!!

Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)?

Next Question: Who is inviting more guests?

Previous Question: Who is in charge of the wedding budget?

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Devoted June 2018
Sarah · on May 16, 2018 at 7:04 PM
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Me. I have to plan everything out in advance and have a schedule
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Beginner May 2019
Mandi · on May 16, 2018 at 7:09 PM
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I am, but I'm letting him give input!
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Super May 2019
Kaylyn · on May 16, 2018 at 7:15 PM
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Me! We’re both doing our part but I just have more of an eye for it
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Super August 2018
Shayna · on May 16, 2018 at 7:17 PM
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We both think in the long term, but it probably more of the planned, especially when it comes to the wedding.
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Devoted July 2018
RH912 · on May 16, 2018 at 7:23 PM
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I am the planner but I am pleased that he has been very involved and I'm not having to do it all by myself.
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Dedicated November 2020
Katie · on May 16, 2018 at 8:55 PM
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Definitely me, but i run every idea by him because he’s my best friend and he has fantastic taste, so he always gives me his opinion. i’m excited to see the wedding come to life since it’ll be a perfect blend of us both!
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Beginner July 2019
Mahogany · on May 16, 2018 at 9:27 PM
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I'm the planner... I'm actually a event planner by night.
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VIP October 2018
ap2al · on May 16, 2018 at 10:33 PM
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Oh I’m the planner that’s for sure! Bless his heart, he tries haha.
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Devoted March 2019
Mmssecrets · on May 16, 2018 at 10:35 PM
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Neither really. He never plans anything. It's not that I don't plan it's that I procrastinate...badly. so planning this wedding is kinda stressful for because everything has to be done or I won't have the wedding I want. I do however organize our calendar!
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Just Said Yes October 2021
Jasmine · on May 16, 2018 at 10:59 PM
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Me I love planning things!
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VIP July 2018
Jen · on May 16, 2018 at 11:15 PM
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Me - for sure!!!
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Devoted May 2018
Brenda · on May 16, 2018 at 11:32 PM
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Normally I’m a procrastinator but I was 100% the planner for the wedding. I did ask my husband his opinion on things but I everything else
was all me.
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Master August 2018
Kristina · on May 17, 2018 at 12:18 PM
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Oh goodness, it's definitely me. I'm planning the entire wedding, I plan out weekends, food, etc.
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Super December 2018
T P · on May 17, 2018 at 2:14 PM
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I am the planner in our relationship. My partner is very good at maintaining the plan and execution. I think we balance each other nicely. We make a good team!
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Master August 2018
MrsPreach2018 · on May 17, 2018 at 2:19 PM
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That's easy, definitely ME!!! He had no idea of all of the details needed.
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Beginner August 2018
Sarah · on May 17, 2018 at 6:39 PM
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I am for sure. It annoys me when he just wants to wing it!
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Champion June 2010
Laura · on May 17, 2018 at 6:50 PM
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That was me.
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Savvy October 2018
Hannah · on May 17, 2018 at 6:56 PM
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Hands down, me!
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Beginner January 2019
Samantha · on May 17, 2018 at 7:00 PM
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I am better at planning in general. I do the grocery shopping, I plan play dates for our daughter, and trips for us to take. It's like pulling teeth sometimes to get him to plan anything. He's very much a go with the flow guy which is fine, but I need to know what's going on. I get anxious without a plan in place.
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Just Said Yes January 2019
mislay · on May 17, 2018 at 7:03 PM
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Definitely me!! He says he plans but 99% of the time hes winging it.
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