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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is the planner in your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:52 PM

Posted in Planning 199

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!! Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)? Next Question: Who is inviting more guests?...

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!!

Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)?


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  • Carrie
    Dedicated October 2018
    Carrie ·
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    I am definitely the planner....wedding or not it's me....lol
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  • Joanna
    Dedicated October 2018
    Joanna ·
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    I'm planning most of it but any decision I've made, I've spoken to him about before we set it in concrete
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  • Shaunte
    Expert December 2021
    Shaunte ·
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    Me for sure but I ask for his input on just about everything.

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  • H
    Dedicated April 2020
    Helen ·
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    We just started so idk yet. I’ve been contacting vendors and photographers. She’s been contacting caterers and djs.
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  • V
    Savvy October 2018
    Vicki ·
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    I am in charge of the planning. If it were up to him we'd be married in the court house by now lol. He wants me to have whatever I want and has given me full reign with his opinions on what he thinks would look better, what he likes etc
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  • V
    Savvy October 2018
    Vicki ·
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    That's me. I have a bigger family and he's not as close to his as I am mine
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  • KIMBERLY
    Savvy October 2018
    KIMBERLY ·
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    I am definitely the planner but I keep him updated on everything big or small
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  • R
    Devoted October 2018
    Raquel ·
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    100 percent me! I plan he agrees, then vetos and I plan again lol
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  • J
    Beginner February 2019
    Jamie ·
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    I am the better planner for the wedding. He is the better planner for making sure we can survive. Like taking a new job so that he can make sure we will be able to live comfortably.
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  • CarrieAndBert
    Expert June 2018
    CarrieAndBert ·
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    I would be the planner for the wedding but I run everything by him just to make sure he likes it all since it's his wedding too.
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  • C
    Beginner February 2019
    Cristal ·
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    Me, I do all the bills, budgeting and such 😝
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  • A
    Savvy October 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Depends on the day. 😋
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  • K
    Just Said Yes January 2019
    Kelsy ·
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    I am the planner. He often says he would lose his mind if not for me.

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  • Kolli
    Savvy March 2019
    Kolli ·
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    Me he will put in some ideas but mostly me
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  • Kolli
    Savvy March 2019
    Kolli ·
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    His family
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  • C
    Beginner March 2019
    Cat ·
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    In literally every aspect but the wedding, him. When it comes to the wedding, it's all on me. Which is fine. We talked about what we wanted and now I just get to make it happen.

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  • Tiffany
    Just Said Yes March 2019
    Tiffany ·
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    I am the planner.
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  • Summer
    Super August 2018
    Summer ·
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    I am...if it were up to him we would've picked the first honeymoon hotel we looked at without doing any research.

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  • Deliliah
    Beginner March 2019
    Deliliah ·
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    He is the planner lol he is more structured than I am but I’m working on getting there lol
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  • Mrs.Sanok
    VIP September 2018
    Mrs.Sanok ·
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    Me for sure. I have done all the emailing and the phone calling and all the research! Which I do not mind at all, I am actually having a lot of fun with it.

    But I of course find a group that I like and think he might like and show him what I have found and he will give me his opinion!

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