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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is the planner in your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:52 PM

Posted in Planning 199

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!! Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)? Next Question: Who is inviting more guests?...

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!!

Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)?


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199 Comments

  • FutureMrsN14
    Super July 2018
    FutureMrsN14 ·
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    Meeee for sure Smiley smile haha
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  • Ana
    Just Said Yes March 2020
    Ana ·
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    I am the planner hes down to do anything
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  • Kim
    Just Said Yes March 2019
    Kim ·
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    I am, we go and look at alot of things together but i guess it would be both. lol

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  • Emilie
    Super April 2019
    Emilie ·
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    He doesn't care about what it looks like. We have similar tastes so when I show him something he usually just nods and says "nice" and that's it! I've been doing the planning, he just chimes in if there is another money saving option!
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  • Heather
    Expert August 2018
    Heather ·
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    Me. All he says he has to do is show up 🙄 so I'm planning everything.
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  • calwhitt012
    Beginner March 2019
    calwhitt012 ·
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    ME! Don't get me wrong, he is very hands-on with the planning, but I spend the most time organizing and brainstorming and putting things together.
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  • Jaycie
    Expert March 2019
    Jaycie ·
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    I'm the one taking charge for planning. My fiancé had attended some meetings with me but is pretty great taking time to discuss things I'm unsure of myself. Although I'm kinda doing more work, I think we have a pretty great team effort going!
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  • Katelyn
    Devoted January 2019
    Katelyn ·
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    90% me. 10% him. He couldn't care less about anything besides what he is wearing, who is in the bridal party, and the vows. I just ran everything by him so that we both had a say in everything.
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  • Kendra
    Dedicated November 2019
    Kendra ·
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    I'm the wedding planner but he always has a plan and back up plan for everything
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    Savvy April 2019
    Cassandra ·
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    MEEE! I bought a personalized wedding planner and all. I love keeping track of what’s paid and what events we have coming up, food tasting etc. I check off what we already have done.
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    Savvy March 2019
    Luisa ·
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    Joint effort. We gave ourselves a two year engagement, we remind each other; I’m good at keeping appointments but he has more expieriance in weddings and receptions (since he comes from a huge close family) so he knows what to look for and expect, also wedding wire, and a wedding planner that are a huge help too.
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    Expert April 2019
    Ashley ·
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    I’m the better planner. 99% of things I plan he hates doing that stuff
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  • Alyssa
    Just Said Yes March 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    Me. I have my whole organization system down when it comes to planning.
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  • Patricia
    Dedicated October 2018
    Patricia ·
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    Since I'm type A+ I'll have to say me
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    Devoted March 2019
    Amanda ·
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    I feel like I'm a better planner, but I procrastinate and he helps me to remember to make the calls on my list.
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    Dedicated June 2018
    Shala ·
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    I do almost all the planning everyone once in a while he will plan something
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  • Kelsey Brielle
    Super June 2022
    Kelsey Brielle ·
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    Definitely me. I love to be organized, seperate email, pros and cons list, seperate file cabinet for wedding planning, ect. Usually I'll gather eveyt
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  • Kelsey Brielle
    Super June 2022
    Kelsey Brielle ·
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    On mobile... Pressed enter by accident.

    Usually I'll gather all the information together, bring it to him and we discuss
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  • Faith
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Faith ·
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    We talk out our disitions and we rather agree or disagree to it
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    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Tyesha ·
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    Definitely me
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