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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is the planner in your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:52 PM

Posted in Planning 199

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!! Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)? Next Question: Who is inviting more guests?...

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!!

Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)?


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199 Comments

  • M
    Devoted July 2018
    Mrs. Terelo ·
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    Me but he would argue by planner I mean over thinker. He is cool and calculated I stress and plan for a million different angles. We call it balance.
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  • DC Wife 10.27.18
    Master October 2018
    DC Wife 10.27.18 ·
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    Definitely me although he is helpful in his areas of interest.

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  • Candice
    Just Said Yes March 2020
    Candice ·
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    Me of course but his mom is helping he just get a say. Basically “do you like this or this?”
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  • N
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Naya ·
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    Me! I’ve been making all the calls.
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  • Toni Jones
    Beginner December 2022
    Toni Jones ·
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    I am the planner!!! But he helps me make great decisions
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  • Janice
    Beginner November 2018
    Janice ·
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    I’m the planner and he gets to provide input. I tell him where to be when and why and send him a calendar invite and he will be there but otherwise it’s all me.
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  • P
    Super January 2019
    PalmTrees ·
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    We don’t have much to plan but I’ve thought about it a lot more than him so I’ll say me.
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  • Mamagypsy13
    Savvy November 2018
    Mamagypsy13 ·
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    This one is all me, as frustrating as it can get 🙄
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  • Amber
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Amber ·
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    I am definitely the planner. I really enjoy being the creativity that goes into planning big events to surprise him. He prefers to keep things chill.

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  • J
    Beginner April 2019
    Jael ·
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    He is definitely the more organized of the two of us but we do work together
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  • Cierra
    Savvy June 2019
    Cierra ·
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    Definitely me! My fiancé has no sense of organization. 😂
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  • T
    Beginner June 2019
    Taishai ·
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    I am he has started anything he's very last minute
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  • K
    Just Said Yes June 2021
    Katrina ·
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    Me, he is a go with the flow kind of man
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  • J
    Just Said Yes September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    Me definitely!
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  • Karley
    Just Said Yes March 2019
    Karley ·
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    Me! And it has to be color coated!
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  • Becca
    Devoted October 2019
    Becca ·
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    I'm definitely the planner. Love him but he doesn't think through things.

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  • K
    Beginner May 2019
    Kara ·
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    I'm the one who says we need to plan now. He's good at helping give insite but unless he really hates the idea its pretty much my choice. Good thing we like the same stuff.
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  • K
    Beginner September 2019
    Katy ·
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    Me for sure, I have to have things down to the last piece of the vision. But he also is a really big help. He is always there to give his input when asked or need to because it's just as important as mine, as well as keep me from going insane.
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  • N
    Just Said Yes June 2020
    Natasha ·
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    Meee! I love to plan🤗
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  • kymarmck
    Super March 2020
    kymarmck ·
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    I'm definitely the better planner. I like to do research before committing to everything and I love making timelines so that we stick to a schedule.

    He will make reminders for himself but then gets so busy that he forgets all about it and ends up forgetting his plan.

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