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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is the planner in your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:52 PM

Posted in Planning 199

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!! Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)? Next Question: Who is inviting more guests?...

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!!

Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)?


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199 Comments

  • La Shonda
    Beginner October 2020
    La Shonda ·
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    I am definitely the planner. I want to know from now until the end what's going on. He is more big picture, same results
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  • M
    Beginner February 2019
    Milinda ·
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    I am, but as far as colors, themes, catering, and venue, were picking out together

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  • Jessica
    Beginner October 2019
    Jessica ·
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    That’ll be me. He is much more spontaneous and does things on a whim. If he feels like it’ll work he’s gonna do it with no thought of consequences. Me on the other hand I over think and need to know every single detail and there has to be a game plan for everything.
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  • Megan
    Beginner October 2018
    Megan ·
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    I'm the planner. I always ask for his input but minus a few things he has an opinion about he just agrees with me
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  • N
    Beginner October 2021
    Nelly ·
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    That would definitely be me.
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  • S
    Beginner September 2019
    Serena ·
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    Me, mom and my future sister in laws are the planners but he gives his input once in a while plus we have a wedding planner too.
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  • Sarah
    VIP July 2018
    Sarah ·
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    Me. He HATES the word "Plan."

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  • Tiffany
    Beginner November 2018
    Tiffany ·
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    🙋🏼‍♀️ I’m the planner 100%, he goes with the flow while I’m all about being prepared.
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  • Grace
    Beginner May 2019
    Grace ·
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    Definitely me. I have to know things way in advance while he's a lot more spontaneous.

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  • M
    Just Said Yes July 2018
    Margaret ·
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    Me! My fiancé says he’s uninterested or whatever I want is fine and then when it comes down to it complains on my decisions! If you don’t care what I pick that’s fine but then don’t tell me what I pick is wrong
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  • Hannah
    Devoted July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I am when it comes to certain things. When they're timed things so of course our wedding, bills, etc. I have like 10 planners, but everyday life, we just go with the flow.
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  • Tpatb
    Master August 2019
    Tpatb ·
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    I plan everything
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  • A
    Beginner August 2019
    Amanda ·
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    We share planning
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  • Jana
    Just Said Yes July 2019
    Jana ·
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    Definitely me! I love planning, I’m currently studying events management.
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  • M
    Beginner June 2019
    Melissa ·
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    I am the planner, I have kids so planning when doing anything was essential, he has been a bachelor for a long time so he would always just fly by the seat of his pants! Those are his words also lol!
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  • Mrscolón
    Super September 2019
    Mrscolón ·
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    I am the better planner for sure lol! He definitely adds his opinion and input when needed or if I ask though.

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  • Jasmine
    Savvy April 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    This one is mutual. I plan trips, and this weeding but she normally finds the location and good with time management.
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  • EllieRose
    Expert February 2020
    EllieRose ·
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    Me me me!!!
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  • Amanda
    Savvy April 2023
    Amanda ·
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    100% me. it's my day job to plan events and I definitely care a lot more about what the event is like. He's going to have to do more planning when it comes to the church ceremony since it's his church we're getting married in. He has also been clear about a couple things that he wants though (mostly to wear his army dress uniform and do a sword arch)

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  • Cheryl&rock
    VIP June 2019
    Cheryl&rock ·
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    I'm the planner...although he has just told me he wants to upgrade our venue!!!
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