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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is the planner in your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:52 PM

Posted in Planning 199

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!! Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)? Next Question: Who is inviting more guests?...

Time to fess up about your relationship and planning habits!!

Planning a wedding requires lots of organization and there are countless decisions and details you need to stay on top of!! Who is the better wedding planner so far - you or your fiancé(e)?


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  • M
    Savvy October 2019
    Marah ·
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    Definitely me. He better at making sure we fall through with the plans on time because I'm always running late but I make sure everything is planned.
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  • Katie
    Savvy August 2019
    Katie ·
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    I want to say it's me... I think I'm more rigid with it. He'll plan, but he likes stress free planning.

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    Just Said Yes April 2021
    Jalissa ·
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    I am forced to be the better planner. Because his answer to everything is "doesn't matter bunbun"
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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann ·
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    Def. me, he has his moments, but I normally like to plan things out.

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Is there any aspect of the wedding that he has a strong opinion about or is he pretty neutral about everything?!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    It sounds like you two compliment each other perfectly!

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  • K
    Beginner October 2019
    Katie ·
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    Definitely muah. I have always dreamed of my wedding day so actually planning it and choosing colors and making actual decisions has been crazy but I love it.
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  • L
    Beginner January 2019
    Lonnie ·
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    We're both pretty good at coming up with random plans then coming together to filter through them all
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  • J
    Just Said Yes April 2021
    Jalissa ·
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    Only strong opinion on him having control over the honeymoon. Everything else he is pretty much neutral
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  • Hannah
    Devoted July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Definitely me. Although, I know if I really asked him to, he'd be all in, helping me plan everything.
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  • Unavailable
    Dedicated January 2043
    Unavailable ·
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    He definitely is.
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  • futureMrsC
    Devoted March 2021
    futureMrsC ·
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    Definitely me... And if I hear "whatever you want, babe" one more time, I might lose it 🤣🤣
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  • Edward
    Devoted March 2019
    Edward ·
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    Edward plans more than I do. He is better at budgeting and time management than I am and I prefer it that way too!
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  • Jessica
    Savvy October 2020
    Jessica ·
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    Me if i left planning ANYTHING up to him it would be forgotten until last minute. That's also why I have to set up all his Drs appointments and wake him up in time to get there! 😂😂
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  • Nicole
    Dedicated May 2020
    Nicole ·
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    Me, I'm doing all of the planning so it stays in the budget, so far I'm under budget by $1000.

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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    I'm def more of a planner, but he's certainly helpful. He even created a WW account to link to mine to keep up with the messages from vendors.

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  • L
    Savvy May 2020
    Leah ·
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    100% me. I’m a teacher so planning is basically what I do.
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  • J
    Beginner September 2019
    Jessica ·
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    Totally me.. I have a very clear.idea of what I want and I'm also a bargain Hunter, so unless even the cheapest price is outlandish, we're going with what I want.
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  • Karen
    Dedicated October 2023
    Karen ·
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    He plans for everything, the only thing I plan is this wedding.
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    Savvy April 2024
    Sophia ·
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    Me! Me! Me! I'm going to be an event planner/coordinator so it better be me!
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